It's never too late Kitty, unless they are nailing shut your coffin. :-)
What you might choose to change and start over might not be the same as others. So many people have trouble making just a little change of some sort, but most of the time it is worth it.
She should wave. Does not matter if it was a private visit to a friend or a state visit. She may be the queen, but hard working non royal people are just as important, if not more so than she is.
It is a sign of respect that she waves to people, no matter what the occasion. (JMO)
Been there, and one guy's sister called every time we went out.
One guy just meeting for a coffee, got a phone call, looked at the number said "Oh wrong number", and then called them back. It was Rude!
Only calls if on a date, are calls from a sitter... and in some cases answer a call from your parent to make sure it's not an emergency. If your friend calls, and you do not answer, is it too much to expect a FRIEND to leave a message, and will understand you were on a date and that is the reason you did not take the call?
I just be naive ... because a friend should understand you will not answer every call they make, and will call them back when you can.
I was told if I was not called for a second interview... that I was not going to get the job.
They checked my references, did no call me for an interview... but called almost 6 weeks later... first message in the morning was... sorry Kim they have decided to go about hiring for the position another way....
I felt very down, but less than 10 minutes later the agency was calling me, and telling me to call them back it was urgent. The message sent to the agency was not complete.
Instead of interviewing another person, and my doing the 3 months probation as a temp, I was hired, with out a second interview.....
Do not give up ........ I did not..... When a company says give it a week, or two.... it can take a month to go through the whole process. I should mention that I did work in HR for over a yr.... and watched the hiring process. 1 or 2 weeks is a standard response.
Think positive... and do not be afraid to call after 2 weeks... you might find out they are still in the process of reviewing and calling references.
BAD ATTITUDE.... Book of secrets..... read it and used it.... even after 6 weeks of being positive and wanting my job, I got news that in stead of using me as a temp for 3 months and then hiring me, they hired me.... did not even have to do the second interview.
I was told a week and I kept saying that is the job I want, I want it, it is mine..... been there almost a year. Still love my job, get up every morning, happy I'm going to my job. Some jobs take a month or more to get back to you. References have to be checked etc.
If you have not read the book of secrets... do so... and do like George said. Own it, think positive and keep telling yourself you'll get the job, it's yours.
Might suprize yourself. Get the book of secrets. It's a fast read, and helps a person think positive.
A woman stopped by unannounced at her son's house.
She knocked on the door then immediately walked in. She was shocked to see her daughter-in-law laying on the couch, totally naked. Soft music was playing, and the aroma of perfume filled the room.
"What are you doing?" she asked.
"I'm waiting for John to come home from work." The daughter-in-law answered.
"But you're naked!" the mother-in-law exclaimed.
'This is my love dress," the daughter-in-law explained.
"Love dress? But you're naked!"
"John loves me to wear this dress," she explained. "It excites him to no end. Every time he sees me in this dress, he instantly becomes romantic and ravages me for hours. He can't get enough of me".
The mother-in-law left. When she got home she undressed, Showered, put on her best perfume, dimmed the lights, put on a romantic CD, and laid on the couch waiting for her husband to arrive.
Finally, her husband came home. He walked in and saw her Laying there so provocatively.
"What are you doing?" he asked.
"This is my love dress," she whispered, sensually.
For Cripes sake... thought you were talking about being an Nana Auntie... you and your daughter look to be around the same age... What's your secret???
this concern has also been mentioned in medical journals.... one theory has to do with the hormones injected in to our food, chemicals in the soil and water.
This is causing girls as young as 6 to mature physically faster than 20 yrs ago. Maturing includes menstral and other hormonal areas.
Sorry, refuse to go into more detail. Too many creeps out there.
My mother and father have both. Joint account pays all the bills and household needs.
A small personal one, so they can save for something... like a gift for each other.
If I had an account with the ex, I would not been allowed to touch any of the money, even if it was what I earned.
Having my own account, also allowed me to pay for the kids things or for my parents to transfer gift money to the kids. If the ex had of gotten it, we would not have been getting gifts for the kids as my parents would have wanted.
JMO... have both one for yourself and a joint account. If there is a break up in the relationship.... you will still have your own account.
PATIENCE (is that the same as tolerance?) is always first on my list.... confidence (but not arrogant)
not be impatient or arrogant (self centered)
compassionate (open minded) be positive
not be closed minded and negative
Be able to laugh at themselves first Enjoy the small things
Not joke at other's expense Not be critical of everything and every one. (suck the life/enjoyment out of everything)
Independent... be themselves Independent .... as in have a job, be retired, have something to do
Not be stuck on material things Depend on someone else to pay their way, mentally, emotionally and financially (not someone that lives off others and does nothing to help themselves.)
Not worry about their appearance and status (must have fancy car, money ... snob richie life style)
not be afraid to be imperfect ( - but not ones where you are abusive, drugs .... etc)
Have a belief in something and someone
Non believer in anything or anyone Don't act like you are perfect
Be Real not fake
Be honest not a liar
Like yourself Don't hate yourself
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Compromise _ not have just their own way
Gentleness (but not push over) - not a bully
Honest communication
not responding or giving an answer just to keep the peace
Use soap and water brush your teeth etc (don't have to be the dressed best, but have pride in how clean you are.)
not clean or take pride in appearance ...
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Not on drugs, sober non drinking alcoholic, mild drinker (not all the time, or knows when to stop drinking)
You can belong to all kinds of social groups, etc, but that does not mean you will meet your special person in there. Meeting anyone, takes patience, on line or off line.
Meet the most of the frogs now, later one, you will have sifted through them, and move up to the better one.
I read with some surprise your reassurance that "PETA's ad comparing Tim McLean Jr.'s murder with the fate of animals who are killed for their flesh is certainly not meant to upset anyone."
Surely, the purpose of comparing a man who was brutally beheaded to the plight of farm animals is to shock people. People who are shocked are invariably upset as well. So your position seems dishonest at best, and cold-hearted and cynical. I'd suggest that, regardless of what you think of barbaric meat-eaters, you had to know his family would be rather upset by any billboards comparing their son to a dead cow.
Most of us eat meat. We do it because our bodies are designed to do it; just like those creatures you 'protect', human beings are part of the animal food chain. And while you may see that chain as barbaric, I haven't seen any PETA officials traipsing into the forest to dress down a bear for eating meat. I'd like to, but I haven't.
Human societies dictate the course of justice in large part on what is "natural" behaviour. It does not suggest that, simply because we have a greater exercise of free will, we should stop being true to that nature. Rather, we have adapted societies to accept -- albeit with occasional revulsion -- many natural things we do.
When it come to meat, that may sound nasty and cold-blooded to a vegan. But it is human reality; we are the master of our domain precisely because we have the ability to shepherd it. We are not driven to kill animals by a frenzied urge to obtain protein. That implies a lack of conscious choice. We do it because we feel it is normal -- a rationalized choice, but a choice.
The beheading of Mr. McLean, on the other hand, was an act that no human could see as anything other than sheer lunacy. No one makes a rational choice to behead a fellow human. So there is absolutely no "apt" parallel, as you so callously stated in your letter.
The family of the steak I ate last night may, you are right, have been traumatized by his sudden disappearance ... for the four seconds it took to flit through their underdeveloped brains. But they do not sit up at night, waiting in vain. They do not look back at years of fond memories and emotional bonds and wonder what might have been. They not grieve for years.
So it is not even slightly "apt" to compare Tim McLean Jr. to a dead cow. As such, the emotional damage you unleashed on parents to whom "your hearts go out" demonstrates the essence of inhumanity: the ability to disconnect yourself emotionally from society.
PETA hates cruelty, and yet when it feels the need, it can justify behaving in a cruel way. What a strange and savage hypocrisy.
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you are sounding defeated ...... grrrrr
RE: Lol the voice of experience............so many men do not know how to kiss..................