Just a bit of advise that may be helpful to you, in phrasing the titles for your threads. How about, "It would be lovely to have more women starting threads on this site, I look forward to that, as women can make valuable contributions in this area of communication". Positive remarks carry far more impact than negative ones,
RE: We need your prayers.
Very sad to read your wife is so unwell. Sending prayers your way. Hope very much she can pull through. God Bless!