Yes I am very sad, my girl has left me due to a joke I put on here about xmas presents for my "girlfriend" that I did not even have at the time. She insists on honesty she says, and feels I was seeing someone when I started to talk with her...yet she gave me a false name from the start. How honest is that? She did give me her real name after we got to meet, and I fell hard for her, and she told me she loved me, and I have fallen in love with her. All I know is that real love does not stop, or waver, I gave myself totally to her only to have the rug pulled out from under me. Now I am left standing here saying WTF! I have done nothing wrong yet I am the loser. I am so sad...
So I think its time I moved on, my heart is broken and I cannot stand to meet yet another woman who has a different pic, , borderline psychotic behaviour, secret medical condition or other irregular or bizzarre habits you just don't get over a text message or a post in a forum. I have had enough, and I wish you all the very best.
I do still pray each night for all my dear friends that I have met through the site....
Keep your eyes open people...keep smiling, and rock on.
oh you must be honest with yourself to start with, and honest with her too. Tell her you have feelings for her, and see if she is on the same page. You could save yourself a lot of grief by finding out early if it is not meant to be. Sorry to hear that your marriage has fallen on dim times, I know what it is like to live with someone who does not reciprocate your love.
But now with your new knowledge you can look for the woman you dream of, or at least have a better idea in your mind what you really desire and deserve from a relationship.
I'm sick of Canadian winters too, I want someplace warm like Mexico or Costa Rica! I am starting to ask myself why I continue to live here in this Venus like atmosphere....
Kudos to you if you can get up there in front of a room full of drunks and belt out note after wrong note and still walk away proud! Tell me its not daring, ...it can be positively frightening!
...maybe you need more of a challenge.... ...ever catch poison arrows with your teeth?
...ever save a Guatamalan village with just a garden hoe and a glass of water?
...ever try to steal a Hell's Angel's motorcycle?
all of these tasks would be tougher than trying to get Martha Stewart off on a set of dirty sheets....
Honesty is No. 1 and also a comfortability with themselves that I just can't explain....they must be secure and happy with themself before they can offer that person to me. I feel I must be as well.
2008 has been great so far, I too have met someone very special, work is progressing and I will move to a bigger, nicer home soon! Since my separation in 2003, and through the divorce things have gone from bad to worse and now seem to be better than ever.
just to be clear.... I am certainly not desperate, I am not "settling" for an older woman...quite the opposite really. I have met a wonderful woman who happens to be a bit older than me. And if I did not find her captivating and HONEST I would not spend my time with her. Yes time is a valuable thing isn't it....and to spend mine with her is a treat for sure. In praise of older women? YES ! No bar hopping cougars.... no desperate housewives.... can you even tell the difference? As a man I wanted a woman who would be open and honest with me, nothing less. I hope you find one that is as special as the one I have found. I wouldn't waste my time on anything else, including bashing someone as nice as Dawn.... that's just silly.
Well Taz I think another chance is fair if you feel in your heart that it is worth finding out. Only you can answer that. Maybe he was a bit awestruck...you are a pretty lady with a good head on her shoulders....we just don't meet that many like you!!
I have met such a wonderful woman and have asked her to be mine all mine! Not sure when I ate all these butterflies but it feels like a whole flock in there!
So sorry Ladies, I am soooooo taken now!
don't you dare pinch me I don't ever want to wake from this dream....
So sorry you have had to deal with this dudleydorite. And that you have to continue to deal with it I am sure. Deceit has no place in a real relationship, and I know that you are better off without her. Curly is right, it does get better, and you may have to remind yourself of that often....but hang in there, you are worth it.
Yes I agree and can relate completely to what you are saying. When I left my last relationship I had to become totally independent too. I was the victim of the rebound in that one, and it was not fun. But living on your own is empowering too, its all in the way you look at it.
You know what the rebound is, it's the period shortly after your break up with someone.
Do you date someone right away to get over your ex? Some will date right away and some will not. Have you ever been the victim of a rebound? Where someone you thought was serious was just looking for someone to get over their ex?
If I was any more opposite I'd be going in reverse! lol Boy/Girl is a good place to start, but I think what we are talking about is referred to as a complimentarity of needs, where each provides something for the other. It can mean a lot of things to the multitudes of couples out there, and the needs are really more emotional than physical. They may not be apparent at all, but that chemistry tells the whole story, and when the zing bounces off your spine you just know it.
I'd take you out if I could but I am working through the day and helping do sound for my friend's band for the big night. ...maybe dinner and a dance another night.... !
Hey guess what? I just happen to be 5 years younger! Ya! what are the odds of that? ok technically Elmo is like 10 years older than Spongebob but lets not split hairs, ok?!
As long as you have less leg hair than Elmo I think we're good!
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i'm so sad, and so gone
Yes I am very sad, my girl has left me due to a joke I put on here about xmas presents for my "girlfriend" that I did not even have at the time. She insists on honesty she says, and feels I was seeing someone when I started to talk with her...yet she gave me a false name from the start. How honest is that?She did give me her real name after we got to meet, and I fell hard for her, and she told me she loved me, and I have fallen in love with her.
All I know is that real love does not stop, or waver, I gave myself totally to her only to have the rug pulled out from under me. Now I am left standing here saying WTF! I have done nothing wrong yet I am the loser. I am so sad...
So I think its time I moved on, my heart is broken and I cannot stand to meet yet another woman who has a different pic, , borderline psychotic behaviour, secret medical condition or other irregular or bizzarre habits you just don't get over a text message or a post in a forum. I have had enough, and I wish you all the very best.
I do still pray each night for all my dear friends that I have met through the site....
Keep your eyes open people...keep smiling, and rock on.