1. Accept your partner as they are. 2. Be more concerned with being kind, than with being right. 3. Be the best partner you can be. 4. Don’t make assumptions, don’t take things personally.
if people read the post as directed,it would have been better all along,i have never criticised anyone on here or else where, by name,i am not ashamed of this post ,maybe people will look at this and maybe think more about it if the situation arose for them ,some people have nothing better to do than criticise,its a real world we live in and nobody is perfect,
no two cats have the same personality, every one is different, i was lucky with mine, he is now 14, had since he was two weeks old, he is male and neutered, he has got to be near me all the time,now sitting in front of computer as writing this,very affectionate, and would be hard to replace, hope you find the right one
i would really like that, for her to give her side of the story,its open on here,do you think she will,then you will know who the person is, i will not name her
there is a big difference from cooking smells to pure filth, and i mean filth, i did not want to state this, as now i am being critised,cleanliness is next to godliness,the place had never been cleaned for years,
i got to see and speak on cam also, these are things you only find out in reality, as i did, i went on Saturday, and returned today, tuesday, i will put it down to a bad experience, win some lose some, just wanted to know if this has happened to others on here
i have been talking to someone off here for a few weeks, now by telephone. every day, so i took the plunge and travelled to see her, in her country,i took 3 flights and all day travelling to get there, not cheap to get there, money not the problem,when i met her, i thought ok as first impression, what i got to see later, really shook me, the condition of her flat, was so bad and filthy, i would not even let a animal stay there, yet she was insisting i stay there,the smell was so bad, i went and sourced a hotel late at night, she stunk to high heaven, yet insists she is ok, i spent the next day sourcing to get flights back home to no avail, so i had to stay another night,lovely part of a country i had never seen before,so i made the best of a bad situation, she told me there, she never gets up before dinnertime, as she likes to sleep, these are things i found out, only after a meet, i cannot believe how a woman like this can make herself to be what she is not, what i want to know now is ,has anyone else, had something like this happen to them, i will not name this person, who is still on this site, i just hope she reads this, she keeps trying to contact all the time
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RE: Why do you log into this site?
because i have nothing else to do