I agree with you farley and I also recall the post you are speaking of. Some people DO classify the things you have mentioned as "baggage", but not everyone thinks that way.
I certainly did not take your thread to mean you were advertising for another man.
IF someone is so upset because they misunderstood a post, to the extent a relationship has been walked away from...I would have to look closer at that individual.
As far as YOU taking the blame for messing up the relationship...Ummm NO. You canNOT be responsible for someone else's actions, or REactions to things. IF the person does not trust your word, then I cannot help but see a red flag here.
It sounds as if you have ran across a one who is quite immature and selfish, huh? I am sorry someone has spoken to you in that manner regarding your child. Unfortunately there are those that feel that way about children. My guess is....they have no children or if they do, they are not very close to their children. Don't waste your breath or your time with someone of that caliber...
RE: Thanks Mods!
Dang...Like I always say...I seem to miss alot whenever I work or sleep...