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I need help from my guy friends

I need help from my guy friends

Yeah, that woud have always been my first idea, I have never had a problem calling a guy if he's already been calling me. But I have screwed up or been screwed over so much here lately so I'm trying to at least think about what I do before I do it. I don't know if it's even worth the scrutiny I'm putting into it, but I'd at least like the chance to find out without him running for the hills first.

RE: Whyif a man is interested enough to send a flower....

Me too, I love flowers from almost anybody. Thank you wiz!

I need help from my guy friends

Wow, you're a lot of help!

Ok, everything but kick his dog! (Really not sure if he has one. )

I need help from my guy friends

Uhh, digits hon, if I had yours this would not be a problem!

I need help from my guy friends

Cr@p, that's what I was afraid you'd all say. What if he seems a little insecure about things, should I maybe email him and let him know I did have a good time and would like to get to know him better? He did say, you have my number and my email. Then I said you've got mine too. So, email at least?

Sorry gals, I'm deferring to the men on this, they are the only ones who know the insane workings of the male mind.

RE: cinderella was a liar

Hi K, how's it going? Feeling better?

I need help from my guy friends

and any women who have a clue what goes on in men's heads. Never mind, no woman can or should know that.

What does it mean when you've seen a man a couple or three times, had a real good time, and he tells you to call him, in a way that seems to mean, if you want to see me call me. Is it some kind of power play, like seeing how much you really want to see him, or what?

Second question, should I? I hate this stage of a relationship, I never know what the rules are.

RE: cinderella was a liar

There is no prince charming, grow up and quit wasting your time on fairy tales. If you're extremely lucky you'll find a frog who'll turn into a decent man, but no princes, sorry.

RE: If you are not dead then respond darn you! This forum is NOT a one person show!

Sorry Jenny, I've got to go to bed sometime. The baby will be here in about 3 hours, should have gone down long ago.

RE: This is a waste of my time, online dateing.

I have never had a date online. I have met people that I date irl. And when I'm not doing that I'm on here chatting with my friends from all over the world that I'd never have gotten to know otherwise. The internet is a tool like any other. It can be used or misused, that's up to us.

RE: I just joined!

Hi Katie and boyd, nice to meetcha. Welcome to the funny farm. This is a great place to meet and talk to other crazies from all over the world, kinda like an international asylum. Glad you're here.

RE: Does it really matter ?

I'm not guilt driven, I know and like who I am. I've never measured myself by the rest of the world's standards. I used to spend a lot more time and energy trying to please those closest to me, only to wind up frustated. Now I do what pleases me, and if that pleases others so be it. If not, it's their problem, not mine.

RE: How and Why Women "Test" you.

Is there something wrong with me? I don't even understand what these kind of little tests or games are about. What's it supposed to tell you anyway?

All I know is I will never understand men in general, I quit even trying. Would love to halfass understand at least one one of these days before I die.

RE: New Girl

Hey cuty and angel, welcome to the funny farm. Have a ball! Wait, that came out wrong, the round kind, I mean the party kind ... never mind!

RE: LIFE SUX

Oh c'mon Christina, everyone knows your opinion is the only one that matters!

RE: If roses are red

And it never occurred to you why would they be called violet if they were blue?

RE: What has been your favorite age or time period in your life?

Now, I am happier now, more content with myself, my life, and having more fun than I ever have. 50 is my decade, it started out good, and has kept going!

RE: LIFE SUX

Nothing wrong with your poem, and if that's the way you feel at the moment, you should express it. We're just pointing out it's more fun to be happy than to go around thinking life sux all the time. Everybody gets down, we should have been more supportive. Life does suck sometimes, and sometimes it blows. But if you look for it, it can be fun too.

RE: can you?

Ah yes, those of us old enough to remember these words are hopefully old enough to understand, You can't always get what you want, but if you try sometimes, you just might find, you get what you need.

Sometimes what you want is the last thing you need, it's better if you don't get everything you want, makes you appreciate more what you do get.

RE: LIFE SUX

If you think life sux it does. I'm 51, and have plenty of people to love. I don't have to have the one till I find him, if I do. I'm perfectly happy alone and looking around.

Happy people attract others, sad sacks send them running away. Till you're happy with yourself, even if you found someone it would just be cause misery loves company, nobody would be any happier.

RE: If roses are red

Good, I couldn't think of anything that rhymed with purple.

RE: If roses are red

This little rhyme has bugged me since I was a kid, violets aren't blue!

RE: If roses are red

Roses are red

Violets are purple

I love you

Almost as much as my slurpee!


Mornin' wiz!

RE: Have you experienced love at first sight?

Of course, there's the answer. Sometimes we have all these fairytale ideas about what "true" love should be, and when love doesn't turn out happily ever after we doubt that it was true love. But love is a feeling, and if you feel it, it's real. Then comes the part of putting the love into action, love is also a verb. I recall the first time after I started dating that I felt love for someone, and it did scare me to death. Then the thought came to me, it doesn't have to be forever to be love. I can allow myself to love someone without having to know that this is the one I'll spend the rest of my life with. Lord, if I waited for that, well who ever knows about the rest of their life!

RE: Randomly Post The First Thing That Pops Into Your Head Thread

My feakin gawd I'm bored! Do you see what I'm doing, I never have to go to the 2nd page looking for interesting stuff. I think it's high time I signed off and just went to bed. Nighty night all!

RE: When we get up-set about something...

Better saying to me, the best revenge is a life well lived.

RE: No more bears......

You will learn to expect anything out of ocee, nothing surprises me, but it almost always makes me laugh!

RE: the king

How about chopping onions?

RE: This is a waste of my time, online dateing.

So I've heard!