seems to have been one thing after another all my life, I thought about it earlier and there has not been a time without trauma, I was quite well aware of that I think on my feet, but seeing my grandaughter born was one of the most awfull and at the same time wonderfull things that I have ever experienced
I was not numb just relieved that both my daughter and her's were safe and sound,
I laugh now when people ask me for a time scale of my life, the way as I look at it I am here to tell the tale
After all life's knocks I thought I was un-feeling, then I realised I didn't flinch!!! one of my daughters told me at 18 she was about to be a mum !!. my mother had breast cancer, my aunt was dying and all I could think about was Me, not in a selfish way but I was numb, once I let the feelings through I cried my eyes out,
once over that I am the proud grandma of a little girl, my aunt sadly died, but my mother is maaking a good recovery, thank goodness I came around in time to feel what I was feeling
give your self a pat on the back you deserve it it is nice to know some one who thinks its OK, I to have my feet planted firmly on the ground and have prioities in order.
maybe you choose your friends carefully, there are selfish people everywhere, If I am classed as selfish because I like to look after myself. then I am selfish, but if a friend needs me I am the first there no matter what is going on in my life!!! I class my self as a true friend to my friends
society tells us we need A,B,C to be happy!!! been there done that, don't expect another person to make me happy, if I am not happy with myself, but that does not mean I will/not compromise if I thought he was right for me.
As for society, they keep telling us we should be part of a couple! to make us whole! the lucky few get it right the first time the rest of us have to go on single sites just to see what is out there
RE: Wow is this place a clique?
you are not braiding your hair!!! you didn't invite me for dinner, cos you said you were not drinking the night before cooking for that lotLies all lies Gra and morgan don't believe her
and now frozen yorkshire puddings