Posted a page past now, the guy is an abusive bully, thats why he blames you, said before best thing for you to do is get away for a few days and have some me time
cheating is one thing, beatings are another, best thing for you to do is go to your friends and have a little bit of me time, don't answer the phone to him and don't let him know where you are
keeping yourself safe is your number one priority at the moment
Alot of us have been in the situation and I personaly know how hard it is to take that first step away..... maybe going to a womens centre might help you to get through this difficult time
An eldery Aunt once told me when I was stressing about my children (who were quite young at the time) "that they were only on loan" it took me a few years to understand this, the same way as "let it go" both sayings I live by today
Have a better onlook on life with a couple of sayings and alot less stress than ever before, especialy with the line out of the serenity prayer to accept the things I cannot change; courage to change the things I can; and wisdom to know the difference.
RE: what if god really was one of us
will be if there is no butter on my popcornhave a gut and feel like I have paid for it over the years