Even though I live on the other side of the Pacific, the thought of Trump becoming president scares the bejesus out of me ... more than Reagan or George W ever did.
I think you may be having moments of clarity rather than enlightenment. Enlightenment is more of a permanent state rather than an episodic event. In my opinion very few of us would be enlightened, but many would aim to be so.
Send in the Foreign Legion, Ninjas, SAS, Marines, Special Forces ... it will be all over by Christmas ... Hmmmm ... sounds familiar. World War Two and a Half, anyone?
Lost loves are just part of growing up and attaining emotional maturity. Yes breakups can be painful, but often you can look back later and accept that it was really for the best.
On a more humorous level: It is better to have loved and lost than to live with the psycho for the rest of your life!
Regardless of whether it is out of narcissism, medical necessity or body dysmorphia ... it is only 'wrong' when it is done purely to please someone else.
Pakenham is pretty affordable, but it lacks a heart. It is fast becoming a dormitory suburb with new houses going up every five minutes. As usual the population growth outstrips the provision of services. It is about an hour from the CBD, but it has a bad record of cancelled trains, and the Monash Fwy gets chockers after about 6am and after 4pm coming back.
Mostly it is by choice ... it just means I haven't found the woman with whom I would like to share my life. I have been married twice, divorced once and widowed once. At my advanced age I want someone special .... not wanting to just settle for someone just because she will have me .. lol.
I believe it is only a myth about 'one true love' it is an ideal perhaps, but in my experience you might feel like you have found 'the one and only' but over time you discover that there are differences between you. It is those 'rose coloured glasses' one wears at the start of the relationship. I believe space is important in a relationship ... it is so easy to suffocate your partner if you insist on being with them 24/7. Each will come with their own interests not shared by the other, or friends that are not necessarily mutual .. it is important that this continues. Each requires space to pursue their own interests, and have some degree of independence.
There is a lot of twisting of facts by the politicians ... but I guess that is what politicians do! I don't think financial refugees should be allowed in as refugees ... they should have to qualify as migrants. Refugee status should be only applied to those that are fleeing in fear of their life .. and when that danger has passed they can be returned to their own country. I don't believe that off-shore detention and processing should be used ... that is outsourcing to avoid having to deal with the problem. I think we should raise the quota of legal migrants, and ship home the illegal migrants masquerading as refugees.
On paper it might seem like Australia's system is working, but I believe there is a price to paid.
Don't worry about it ... I looked it up. Apparently it was Adam's first missus. Adam wouldn't treat her with the respect she deserved so she p issed off.
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RE: What is a "Soulmate"
I want to believe!