There is little colleration between business relationships and personal relationships.. Business relationships are weighted with contingencies like Scenario planning so that they don’t fail....
Sorry to burst your bubble but are only repeating the mantra of the controlling man for the past 66 million years; ever since the cave woman stepped outside of the cave to see the light!
In my opinion, you can start off with the position of trusting someone 100% and if they break that trust then you adapt or you start from a position where you build trust as you go along! A difficult one! I am inclined to start at the 100% and if someone lies about something then the trust goes! Strong relationships are based on truth and as a consequence trust...
I think trust is intuitive! But what happens when the building of trust is coming from a position of weakness! From where someone has gifted their heart to another only to watch them let it fall and break it and then dance on it.... lots coming from that position! Yes! If it’s about control then it is a total different story
I think as some people start to fall in love their fear of Intimacy appears... it’s like trying to cross a busy multi lane highway to a location of great interest. Should you or should you not? One could get hurt!
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RE: Is it bingo night tonight??
Wha? I have just dropped dead!