Women get off their backside and grab the world by the throat until they get what they want.. Some men sit in the corner of his cave whimpering. That’s the difference!
From reading your thread you sound like a guy that is depressed, during those episodes we tend to get very negative and blame everyone but ourselves. I understand that there is a lot of lies directed towards men who can be fleeced for cash. It is up to the judiciary to take an extreme stand on this.. women have responsibilities too! When men are in crisis they tend to go to their cave and snarl... instead they should set up a good support group that they can engage with in a good way!
Great diplomatic reply... I also prefer the imperfections of men, with all their faults. What a strange and boring world it would be if we were all perfect!
As a researcher of Masculinities/Men’s studies, I will leave you with this thought.. the vast majority of researchers into Men’s studies are women. Why? Because men do not have any issues. Issues are feminine! The greatest insult to a man is to compare him to a woman.
Feminism is not a threat to men.. the biggest threat to men are other men and those other men control you with the tightest of constrains. Men don’t suffer from any illness inside his body, no mental health issues, no heart disease, in fact he is so macho he won’t see a doctor.... however, give him a broken bone from the macho stuff like car crashes, sports injuries, work injuries and he will ask the world to sign his Plaster of Paris.. So, don’t blame women, get yourselves up by your boot straps and learn to stand proudly on your own feet. This is the lever you are at....
I think many people on dating sites are living in the past either lamenting unrequited love or not accepting the fact that they have been rejected up to a quarter of a century ago!!
"there was but one solitary thing about the past worth remembering, and that was the fact that it is past and can't be restored."
It is always good to live in the present. People that do are much happier...
Some say that Trump has Aspergers which would explain a lot. I get him.. I think he is sincere in his actions and deeds. Follow him on Twitter. Straight from him mouth which is difficult to twist!
Good afternoon from Ireland Lyndsey. I agree with you that it is good to meet as soon as possible.. I think I had gone a step further in my thinking. For a relationship to grow and prosper it has to be about timing for both parties. You have both created a space in your life to be filled...
Thanks Miwagh I know Obama was king of cronyism... Jobs for the boys from Wall Street. When he stepped down as President one of his first talks was to an associated company on Wall Street for $400k.. White collar crime I call it!
Yes! It is that simple. If there is a connection there is no need for all the fluffing and huffing. However, it is all about timing! Timing is everything!
I think he was just a tail being wagged by the dog... Did Obama have any real power or courage to lead? He could talk the talk but that’s about it from my observations..
Give them a loves of being curious about everything when they are young. As they get older, perhaps learning to live in the here and now. Set SMART goals (Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Timely). They must sit down and think about their goal(s) and draw them out and put them on display as a constant reminder.....
So much respect Jac for what you have been and are going through. My son had his Adenoids removed and Grommets inserted in his ears when he was two. He had recurrent ear infections for about a year due to the tubes leading from the back of his nose to his ears been smaller than normal. As a result, he developed Glue Ears, had lost his hearing and was lip reading. Post-surgery, he spent 4 yrs. attending speech therapy and read his first full sentence at 8 yrs. One of the proudest days for me was seeing him Graduate with his hons Degree. He climbed a mountain to get it!! My Dr. advised me at the time, that the pain from an earache was the worst you can have and that being deaf is so much worse than been blind. Glad that you are getting some comfort from your hearing aid!
RE: Are you a feminist?
Excellent point!