I just don;t know how the hell I am going to tell them. My oldest turns 6 next week, and this is really going to upset her. Either that, or she will just be excited about having another little sister.
The sad thing is, I also feel sorry for the babys mother. He will do exactly the same to her as he does to me. She will end up a single mum, living on benefits, with no contact from him.
He has asked me not to tell the kids, and that he will do it when he is ready. He was planning on telling me when the baby was 2 years old. What a wonderful father he is.
Just got off the phone from my husband (not divorced yet, long story), and was asking me how I would feel if he had another baby sometime. Would I still let him see the 3 children we have, etc etc. Being married to him for this long, I knew where this was leading so I asked him straight out "Is your Girlfriend pregnant?". His answer has shocked me so much. He has a 7 month old daughter.
He has only seen the children he has with me 5 times in the last year, he doesnt give me any child support, and now he is going to spring a stepsister on them? He is always telling the kids (aged 5, 3 and 1) that he is coming to visit, and then just not turning up. It seems I now know why.
I am just so angry, and hurt for my children right now.
karen1973 Forum Posts (4,112)
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RE: Whom would you match on CS?
Did I get paired up with anyone??? Or have I been forgotten so easily!!