I'm like this...If they shower everyday, shave, comb their hair eveyday, wear clean clothes everyday...Then I'm all for them (I'm very much attracted to them, no matter their height, weight, and financial situation).
I can say from personal experience, but I'm more into the personality. I have about 2 times, dated men that were more than 250lbs. (big boys). But they had such a great personality that the dates were just great. They were funny and such and had a good time.
I've dated "pretty boys" too and they are too much on themselves. I didn't like them.
I'm more into the personality. Just because someone is gorgeous doesn't mean their personality is good. Some of those "pretty boys" I had gone out with had a self-centered, uncaring, no chivalry about them...
I miss my #1 buddy (SOMEMOREFUN). He just got back from vacation to his family's place for Thanksgiving. It's been over 4 weeks now. I'm so glad he's back now and we are going to get together after the 14th of December. I can't wait!!
I try not to hate much, but some things just gets under my skin a little too far... you know what I mean? (like constant lateness, say you are coming me see me but don't, and liars).
And yes, there are childish older guys out there, that want the perfect "Barbie Doll" woman in their life. Well, no one is perfect looking. Everyone has a scar, blemish, moles, freckles, or stretch marks. No one has perfect skin...I haven't seen any ever in my life...The ones in the magazines (AIRBRUSHED out!!), if you didn't know....
I, myself, have faded in stretch marks on the tops of my thighs, but that's a lot of running, jogging, and doing lots of stretching. Lots of runners/joggers have them on the tops of their thighs (near the hips). I think they look cool.
I don't, but as long as they respect where I came from (southeast Texas, near Louisiana) then I don't have a problem. But I've had a problem with some men who said they dated women from Texas before and didn't like them. So, I knew this wasn't going to work out for me. They didn't like my culture and so I just didn't like them.
You know, I hate that too. That happened to me 3 weeks ago. The guy was 4 hours late!!! I almost didn't want to go, but I did. What an idiot...His friends told me he's always late anyway. I don't think I'll see him again...
RE: The attraction dilemma
Yeah, for this stupid redneck town he would, but a lot of the guys here are losers anyway. ....I don't know, I would not be interested...Thanks...