mylifewithu Forum Posts (23,670)

RE: dateing plagerists

That I couldn't tell you

RE: dateing plagerists

Also the dating plagerist, well a plagerist is most likely a liar and doing that to just look good to others, so how far can you really trust someone like that. I am just taking a guess here at what he might mean.

RE: dateing plagerists

Yep some of these people seem to think we are mind readers. But as for plagerism , it's just wrong.

RE: dateing plagerists

Hi again Merri, yeah I don't get this thread either

RE: Cooking

I love chili But these days I have to make it very low fat, very little cholestrol. But It's still good even made that way.

RE: Edit function

RE: Edit function

Also so we can all see what someone says, and they can't change it and claim they never said that.

Hello Harry, ha you should have seen my typo, for a second there that said Hello Happy. But I looked back at what I wrote and was able to fix it.

RE: what do women want

A man that knows how to communicate, when to be honest and speak up, but yet doesn't put down his mates ideas or opinions. But discusses them to see what or how they could both combine what they both want or believe to best work out for both.

A respectful guy, a faithful guy one that I can truely trust.
He isn't a quitter either, if little problems come up he is willing to talk and work them out and also makes compromises.
He doesn't look at me as the enemy when he thinks there's a problem he remembers we are a team and looks for positive solutions.

I don't want to walk behind a man or be in front of him, we are a team , teams work best side by side.

RE: Are old boyfriends to blame for a womans bad behavior???

Exactly and very well said, here is a man that gets it.

RE: why arent you man enough

RE: why arent you man enough

Typical business people, it's all about the money.. I believe people that feed the sicko's what they want are as much of the problem as the sicko.

RE: why arent you man enough

RE: why arent you man enough

Read all of the First page here, then you will get it.

RE: Trust

I only give one I don't know so much trust, I have to know them well before giving more than that.
Sure I hold things back and let them know the most important things I think he should know about me, and give more as I learn to trust him/her. But I expect the same from that person, If I am not hearing his thoughts also, then trust can't grow, it's means he is holding back.
As far as things I might put up with I just think can I live with that problem forever, but we have to imagine it many times worse than what we are seeing. Cause they maybe holding back on that some. So the right questions about that need to be figured out what to ask, so maybe we can move closer in heart to them if we can find trust.
Even then like after being together with a man for 11 years, I thought he would never cheat, but Hey I was wrong. We only know ourselves I believe. You can give trust till they prove they don't deserve it.

RE: why arent you man enough

Didn't anyone read the first page all the way down, this guy is talking about a gross guy that had a nasty thread up

RE: Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?

You are welcome, Hey when you send your first flower, just say something as friend. I like your eyes or something simple. Then go on from there, it's like any fear, to get over it keep pushing a little further and before long you can speak up..

Hey this place corrupted me, now people probable wish I would shut

RE: I'm baaaaack!!!!!!!!

Welcome back Lass you have been missed.

RE: why arent you man enough

RE: Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?

Sometimes it's worth stepping a little out side your comfort zone like sending a flower, you need to let the guys know somehow you are interested. And what if next week that couple might break up, if you don't step up then he will find another, and will not even know you exist.

I was shy in the beginning but push yourself it gets easier.

RE: Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?

I also should add a couple times I did find a man that wanted me as much as I wanted them, one we didn't work out and the other changed his mind about moving all the way here to me.

RE: Have you ever liked someone on CS...who is allready taken?

Sure I have several times back when I first came to cs 3 years ago. But I could tell the other females clicked more than I did with him, or I felt they would be a better pair. I step out of the way.

When I ever find one that wants me as bad as I want him, then He's mine, and look out then.

RE: why arent you man enough

no he is talking about a gross guy from earlier

RE: why arent you man enough

You are welcome.


You are lucky you missed that guys very nasty thread, he went into a bit detail

Hello Merri, Nice to meet you..

RE: from mothers family

RE: why arent you man enough

I shouldn't have said that

RE: why arent you man enough

This man made this thread when the weirdo dog guy had his threads up, I think Op figured it safer to say something bad about the sicko dog guy by making a thread rather than be man enough to go post in the sicko's thread his opinion of him.

RE: Reincarnation

Honey will you let me touch your rock.... pleasssseeee.

RE: Reincarnation

Yesss I believe this is the year of the clones....

RE: light hearted fun

RE: Reincarnation

Yeah it's a nice rock I hope it comes with him...