I can't imagine raising a crazy teenager who steals and robs the neighbourhood. However, if someday I become a single parent, I would be very careful whom I let into my life. Freaks out there!
I normally go for strong men who have some sort of authority because I am wild and spoiled! If you cry a lot and allow me to always have my way, I'll get bored and leave.
Robbie, again, you are misjudging my preference as judgement. Did I say that I will not date a man with children? No. I have lived with a man who had a child from before. I only said I am not keen on a man who has many little kids. Why are you trying to make me feel bad for choosing not to be with a man who has many kids from before? I am only 26, should I not have a chance to start my own family like others here have? I know accidents happen. I know people divorce and separate too. I am currently living with my sister and her kid. Since I am still studying, why should I settle down with a man who has many kids and is jobless, only to add more to an almost miserable life we would have?
One really important question: Why are you not ready to have many more kids at this point in life? Because you aren't ready for that. Same thing for me and any other person who honestly weighs and decides a certain life is not for them.
There are many women in their forties on the site who are not ready to settle with a man with little kids, as well. It doesn't make them not understanding or insensitive either.
I did not see the man judge the lady. He simply stated a preference and the likelihood that it is shared by other men. What is so hard to believe or judgemental about saying one is not ready to raise another's children? I know a lot of women with kids who would not get married to men who have kids from previous relationships, as well. It's just preference. I personally don't want to date a man who has an army of little kids, because I want several of my own. It is hard emotional, physical and financial work to raise children and the thought of being in such a situation with love, and children from previous relationships even scarier. Nothing judgemental about that and I think the world should stop expecting people to understand every little detail of every other person's personal life.
The man coming over later is going to be hungry, so I think food should keep him attracted for an hour or so. That means I should be heading to bed now!
Well, depends a few things: 1)My age 2)His age 3)His social status 4)His educational background
I'll explain further. -A high school graduate between 20 and 27- Too young, so he gets one chance. The recession is not lenient on our relationship either. -A high school graduate between 27 and 34- 2 chances, because of his experience in life and bedroom art. -Now, if he is between 28 and 37 with a Ph.D degree, he gets about 5 chances, because he is a valuable asset and I might be more miserable with a 28- 37 year old cheating, Masters graduate.
See, if you are going to entertain a cheater, make sure he is not a social and financial liability as well!
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RE: Anyone enjoys Gothic Rock?
I like the Finnish ones but mostly, I find gothic music extremely creepy.