I'm not sure which thread is more alluring, this one or the numerous psychoanalysis 'life is unfair, people treat me badly, I know how bad people think' threads. Sometimes, CS feels like a mental ward. Sh¤%, I'm going to watch tv.
Snug. Just because I once supported someone who disagreed with you on a thread, does not mean I have anything against you. Don't let people who have had differences with me for months influence your thinking. Think about it, it would be of no purpose to you or I, just them.
Now, about Marriage....
If you left him for being an alcoholic, then you shouldn't beat yourself up about it. He didn't live up to his end of the bargain, and even though he may have had problems out of his control, you did him no wrong. Staying with him and entertaining his drinking habits, would have been unfair on your part.
Yes, marriage to me, is a gesture of romance, it's a tradition, just like many others you, others and I, are familiar with. I probably sound optimistic about it, because I haven't tried it. I must also insist, that I do not have to get married.
I actually have a few prospects I have dreamed about secretly.
However, I kind of think of marriage as another sign of devotion. Like a man does when he puts his arm around you. You know you are safe with him, when he is in the next room, but with his arm around you, it gives that extra bit of safety.
I don't have to get married, but with the right man, it will definitely be a bonus to the committment.
I hardly meet the right guys around here, and all the guys I would really love to date are not living in Finland. I might as well move, next year. I'm not in a hurry to get married, but If I do, I already know the location I would want the wedding to be.
All they need is love and support. Telling them about spirits and such things is totally wrong, in my opinion. It is better to let them decide that, when they are older. Lying to a child gives them false hope and pulls them away from reality. It may not affect them then, but they may grow up to be dependent on the unreal, or prevent them from being able to deal with such things in the correct way, without escaping. life is hard, and lying doesn't make it easier.
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