A lot of people need someone to validate their being. Whether it's a companion or the constant need to be praised to show everyone how great they are. I think they are just trying to convince themselves when in truth it comes from within.
This site can be great. It's good reading and you participate in the threads if you want. I'm sure it has benefited a lot of people on here even if they do come and go, come and go, come and go.
I know exactly what you are feeling. It is horrible. Makes you feel like you are loosing your mind. What you have to do is substitute something else in your life in place of your friend. And not necessarily another woman. It can be running, it can be working, it can be playing, even building something. Funny as it sounds, directing the sorrow at something else does work. My prayers are with you.
Go up to her and call her by a random name. When she says it's not her, say she looks just like a woman you used to work with a few years ago. Ask her if she has any relatives in that non existent town you used to work in. Go on to real stuff if she seems receptive.
All bets are off if that random name you call her really is her name LOL
I enjoy meeting people, getting to know a guy over coffee or lunch. But then the "letdown" when there's no second meeting or the dialog just tapers off.
My post was not meant to single out men. The key word was "relationship". When two people have a relationship, they are never thought of as strangers in the eyes of the law, no matter what the timeframe.
It's $3.79/gal here. So what does a local paper do? They make a game out of it. The person who guess what day it will be $4.00/gal will win a prize. Nothing like making a game out of the public being screwed!!!!
This goes back to my original answer where I said a man will not say he is not interested. Even directly asking him something will not provide a satisfactory answer. I bet this one would say he just had something to take care of and SHE is the one putting up roadblocks to him accomplishing it.
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RE: Gods Will.
Words are hard to come by at times like this. Prayers and thoughts are with you.