Never can tell what people think. My ex felt that way. Didn't even use a hat in the rain. Household stuff was only for women. Once when our son was small he kicked him in the butt because someone said "he was walking funny."
Sometimes we all feel this way. Even when I had my perfect job, there were days I just didn't want to get up and go. If you can work thru it just know it can be common. If it becomes so that you just can't function and and just cannot work thru it, it's time to consult a professional.
You are absolutely right? I think the lack of respect for elders is one of the sad commentaries of this day and age. I even read somewhere that these young think elders have to earn respect. Like all the hard work and dues we've paid accounts for nothing.
Nothing wrong with us older women dating younger guys. Same as dating our own age group: Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. For me, I wouldn't blame it on the age difference.
She has to fend for herself now. She has a partner, let him step up to bat. The guilt-trip ploy is how a lot of kids shame people into carrying them instead of figuring out things for themselves. It will cause long lasting damage to bail her out. (Think 64 year old sister still living with her 95 year old father with him footing the bill for everything.)
I have to say just as many men do this too. You take the time to write more than just one line and try to be interesting. But it's no fun for me to carry the whole thing with these idiots.
RE: He's asking for.....