I would IF he had some form of a job. I don't want a broke guy in a wheelchair if you know what I mean. If he was what I wanted personallity wise, and could support/take care of me then sure
Problem is if you're thinking marriage/kids etc. 18 year olds are too young/immature. My friend is 24 always seems to end up dating 18 year olds, and they always leave him for another guy because they are too immature and don't want commitment. Just a thought. I'm 23, and I was in the "single/dating field" again AFTER being married and having a kid. There will be girls your age still available, or getting out of relationships.
I offer to pay for dates sometimes. But most of the time guys just pay immediately not even giving me a chance to offer. I do feel guilty though when my boyfriend pays for a lot of movies we see, so then I chip in and pay for a few especially the ones I know he didn't WANT to see. I do think it's gentleman like though if a guy does pay. I guess i'm old fashionish too.
I just read through all the posts here. I forgot I made this poll
Anyways, yeah it's something I been feeling. But it's hard to describe. It isn't like a bad kind of hurt, it's more like others said about too much pleasure hurting. Like I am always insanely happy, and thinking about him can even get my heart to beat a little faster. The feeling you get when you love somebody, sometimes just gets so intense it's like an overwhelming kind of feeling. Something that to be honest, I can't say I felt before. And I had a long-term 5 year relationship, where I was married for 3 of those 5 and I never loved him as intensely as this. It's like when you're emotions go over the top & you cry not because your sad though, but because you're just so happy, ya know?
Basically me and him talked, I told him I could go with not seeing him a week(maybe...), but not a whole week without talking. He isn't going to go. If it could risk messing us up somehow, it isn't really worth it. I said that i'd want to see him less NOW to see if I could go a week without seeing him and that's 'changing' our relationship and he doesn't want to see me less. So yeah... he says he doesn't care too much about not going. He just wished I told him that night cause if he had of tolded his friend yes, he would of felt committed to going.
Yeah but how long were they together? These kids know him as DAD right? Sometimes it isn't a factor of DNA. If you found out a child wasn't yours years later, but you LOVED them as your own, you should support them as your own. Now if a woman isn't getting support from BIO dad, but was married to some other guy who helped support the child, and they divorce she can take him to court for child support. It's why people are afraid to date single parents, or one of the reasons.
I been told about the license excuse too. Guy didn't want to have to come get me all the time. To a truly interested guy, it wouldn't matter much. My boyfriend says if I had a license I could go meet him for lunch, or see him more often etc. it has perks but he didn't NOT be with me because of it. As for a debt, I wouldn't share that info with someone "new". Unless it becomes serious and/or it could affect him in any way, he doesn't need to know.
He's going with his friend who he's known all his life not sure who else is going if his friend is taking his gf, if it's just a guy thing or what. And it isn't offically 'planned' yet. His friend had it planned a while and kept bugging him to go. But now he's likely going to say okay and do it.
Thanks. It isn't the fact he's going away, it was when I asked him if he's call/text and he basically had no answer to that and I realized he didn't think of it/hadn't planned on it. That hurt, and bothered/bothers me I am going to have to be honest cause it's really bugging me. And the fact I know I will miss him a lot since we been together we haven't spent more then 3 days apart, and we talked during those days and they sucked. His main concern is texting from another country costs more money or something?? He didn't seem to think about a phone card or anything. He says he loves me, and acts like he misses me when we have a few days apart. Maybe he'll miss me a lot during his trip and will have to call me just to talk to me. Before we were together(but almost together) he went camping for a weekend and missed me so much he had a horrible time, when he came back is when he told me he needed me and how we got together, so it might strengthen our relationship?
I do have a boyfriend, but he's just that.. a boyfriend. If I ended up a single mom when I thought I had a HUSBAND forever I wouldn't trust having a baby with just a boyfriend. And if we broke up well, then i'd be single with 2 kids and ya probably wouldn't get a man then.
So you're together for lets say 6 months, they asked you if you mind them going on this trip, you said no. Trip will be a resort type of place maybe Cuba. Going with friends, going to drink, party etc. all week but they don't plan to talk to you during this trip. This whole week you'll be alone doing nothing, having nothing to do while miss them while they'll be having so much fun probably wont think of you.
Would it bother you that they were going?
Would it bother you if they didn't plan to talk to you at all while they were gone?
Would you trust them while they were away?
Does it matter if you're together 6 months or say 2 years?
Devastated....... I have a son already, and I got pregnant with him after I got married, well since we split up and I ended up a single mom and he's not even in the picture, there's noway i'd want to have another baby with a guy I aint even married to....I don't want to raise 2 kids alone, then i'd really never get a man.
I get jealous but I don't get so nasty/b*tchy about it. And you can be jealous but think logically. I find I can't really control my emotions. If I feel jealous, I just do I didn't choose to feel that way. But it's often warrented. Anyone who doesn't get jealous and is just so carefree and whatever, likely get cheated on and just choose to ignore it. If signs are there and you don't feel wrong about it? I get that some people get jealous over nothing, for me it would take a sign of something 'wrong' and either cheating or going in that direction.
I asked this a while back. My boyfriend and I said it after 3 months. It seemed fast for both of us, but it felt like it was the right time, we just both felt it and wanted to say it.
I would pay support yes. My husband paid me support for a while, recently he stopped as he bought a Wii and basically he's a very selfish man who works fulltime but is 26, living at home, and spends all his earnings on himself (stuff he doesn't need.) He never cared to send his son a birthday or christmas present. He had the attitude anyway "I wont see him again so I wont pay" (He's in the USA, me and my son in Canada...he could visit his son here but he CHOOSES not to). I just hope if and when he ever tries to see my kid as he grows up he'll say F* you. I don't think unpaying, non-responsible parents DESERVE to see their child. They made their choice. Can't have everything.
For me, no. I rarely ever drink, never been drunk and frankly I am okay if you want a drink or two, I don't want to be around someone drunk. My boyfriend drinks and gets drunk around friends, but not me as he respects how *I* feel.
It's a turn off for me. I rather a guy work hard for his muscle instead of taking drugs. Though, when I was 15 my boyfriend at the time was 16 and on them. He had muscles alright, now a days he's just ick! Since he stopped taking them he lost everything.
I already have a child, so yes, I could get involved with someone who didn't want children. In fact, i'm 22, and I don't know if I want another. If I had no kids and really wanted them, ya I might still date the person but I wouldn't be thinking it as long-term/lasting unless they changed their mind. You either can give up the idea of children, or find somebody who can give it to you. The choice is whatever is easier.
The most annoying calls we get are for news, which we always say no and they don't quit. And recordings that are scams, saying we won a trip and if you push a button to talk to a live person, the *catch* is they SELL every part of the trip to you, so it aint "won" at all. Ugh. I usually don't answer any longdistance calls. Never get local telemarking calls. I tried to do it once for a job, it only called the USA, different states, I walked out after an hour
I agree. Don't do it because of the NEED to be married. Marriage should be about loving and wanting somebody for the rest of your life, and you wanting to marry them. All I can say horror story wise, make sure you truly KNOW a person. I got married at 18 thinking I truly knew somebody, who turns into a complete oppisite a year AFTER we were married.
Oh ya. When I started dating my boyfriend I said "I wont fall in love with him...I wont fall in love again period". But I DID fall in love. Truth is, I was scare of being hurt by love again. And well I am still a little scared, but very happy.
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RE: Question Ladies.....
I would IF he had some form of a job. I don't want a broke guy in a wheelchair if you know what I mean. If he was what I wanted personallity wise, and could support/take care of me then sure