RE: Is it wrong

Damn social distancing, it ruins all the fun. giggle

RE: let’s make some meals...

Wild salmon is red, but I don't know if farmed salmon can be fed with dyes to imitate wild.

I know battery chickens are fed with dyes which compensate for how pale the yolks form compared with healthy chickens. I remember cracking an egg open as a child and finding it had an overdose - it had a lime green hue.

RE: What do you like about Connecting Singles?

hug

RE: What do you like about Connecting Singles?

I've noticed with me you sometimes take discussion of a subject personally.

I like discussing things; it's a way of learning and growing.

Discussing things is not a personal attack, even when we disagree. It's the subject we may, or may not disagree about.

Don't listen to the devil on your shoulder telling you it's you and telling you to jump to negative conclusions.

Listen to the winged Jac on your other shoulder whispering "It's just a conversation, Ro. Enjoy it for what it is." angel

RE: Current Thoughts #6

I'm loving the Bernie memes.

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RE: What do you like about Connecting Singles?

Ocee102.

RE: The argumentative thread

What makes you think I want to argue with you?

Hmmm? *taps foot*

RE: Expression on a guys face when he meets his bride for the first time....

It looks more like a Gypsy wedding to me, rather than representitive of English culture and traditions.

RE: Expression on a guys face when he meets his bride for the first time....

The English...? laugh

RE: Insane English.

Thankyou, SA.

RE: Expression on a guys face when he meets his bride for the first time....

His posture in the fourth pic is interesting.

Side on, rounded shoulders, knees bent, making himself smaller, hands covering his groin, but the direct eye contact and smile doesn't suggest a lack of confidence.

That's an inviting, coaxing posture rather than a dominant, or confrontaional one.

RE: Insane English.

I would say I have a fairly decent grasp of the English language, but I balls up with spelling and grammatical errors enough that I'm on first name terms with the online Oxford Dictionary.

'Adventitious' is a splendid malapropism, mind. laugh

RE: Insane English.

The Americans aren't dumb, or lazy.

They're just worn out from conversating.

RE: Don’t treat us like Covididiots

Well, you're not covid free, that's for sure.

RE: Don’t treat us like Covididiots

I don't think we've been able to be in a group of 50 since before the pandemic, unless you count the police kettling peaceful protesters who were previously minding their social distance. dunno

RE: I just ordered chicken fried rice medium spicy with chopsticks delivered at home

A beansprout is not one of your five a day, Gal.

Just sayin'.

RE: Don’t treat us like Covididiots

The changes here aren't anything to do with MP's stepping out of line in England.

Our restrictions are guided by English governance, but our constraints have been harsher all along. Wales generally has been hit hard by covid, the county I live in has been particularly bolluxed by it.

It seems to me that, whether it's central government making the decisions, or the Welsh Assembly, there has been a constant tweaking trying to balance the economy with rates of infection. I get that the NHS and it's employees can't be overrun and I get that keeping people employed is important, too. I get that it's complicated and decisions difficult. I get that some mistakes are going to be made in this unknown territory.

Fining people is always going to be arbitrary unless noone can leave the confines of their home.

I live in the middle of nowhere. There is no routine police presence and people are in and out of each other's houses. I wouldn't be surprised if that's where the bulk of the spread comes from, not from people driving off somewhere isolated for a walk, or a cycle ride in the park.

RE: Don’t treat us like Covididiots

I found a news report (left of centre bias, uses some emotionally loaded language, rated 'high' for factual reporting) which said one company in Idaho is blocking Twitter and FB for customers who have requested it only.

The change in service provision has come after a number of customers complained to the internet provider about these platforms.

RE: Don’t treat us like Covididiots

I rang my daughter today to discuss my next visit.

A lot of the news and public announcements are about the situation in England and even going on the GOV.UK WALES doesn't always clarify.

My daughter's family are my 'support bubble' as I live on my own.

Child minding my grandchildren is an essential service and I cover my daughter's extra shifts as an essential worker when she's covering people off sick.

I go to the big supermarket when I visit her village.

I can use public transport if I have a reasonable excuse, but whilst child minding my grandchildren is an essential service, I don't know if visiting my support bubble family, or going to the big supermarket is a reasonable excuse. There is a mini market and a couple of corner shops in my village, but I can't get a lot of allergen friendly stuff here.

A few months back I was restricted to my county borough, which includes my village and my daughter's. Now I'm hearing on the radio and reading online, 'don't leave your village' and 'act like you have covid'. If I had covid I'd be quarantined in my flat and wouldn't even be able to go food shopping. I don't know if 'don't leave your village' applies to Wales, or just England.

I mostly organise my visits around child minding as a matter of course, but I am concerned about getting a £200 fine because a police officer has interpreted the restrictions differently.

My daughter and I pretty much discuss the latest restrictions every time I visit in a bid not to make any mistakes, but as frequently as they change, they are never quite definitive.

RE: What was your maternal grandmother’s first phone number that you used.

I still have a landline phone with a rotary dial and a radiogram. laugh

RE: What was your maternal grandmother’s first phone number that you used.

Do ouija boards count as party lines?

Only I don't think there was any guarantee that any of my grandparents would be listening in.

RE: Don't give up ...

I read the title of your thread to the tune of Kate Bush, clicked on it and there she was. laugh

RE: How do you think other member perceive you..

Good, I was worried there for a moment. laugh

Wishing you a splendid 2021, too. hug

RE: How do you think other member perceive you..

Really...? shock

I didn't go on a roller-coaster until I was 22 years old.

A friend from uni borrowed a minibus under the guise of the Sikh Society and with some others organised a trip to a theme park. Unbeknownst to me, they very kindly arranged everything and everybody for a day when I wasn't working without consulting me. It meant I couldn't really say, "No thankyou!" talk to hand laugh

The first ride I went on was a roller-coaster in the dark. I would never have agreed had I been able to see what I was letting myself in for. I was so unfamiliar with this world I didn't recognise what was going on around me...until I was locked into this moving seat and the lights kept flashing on to reveal my fate. sad flower

It was fantastic, mind. giggle

Generally speaking, I'm rather shy, retiring and unadventurous. dunno

RE: How do you think other member perceive you..

Do you still have your cat, KB...? uh oh

RE: How do you think other member perceive you..

The Legend, Pedro. laugh hug

RE: How do you think other member perceive you..

It would depend upon the perceiver.

We all interpret information from our own value framework, so how we perceive others has a healthy dose of ourselves in it.

RE: What increases status across the board....?

Besides, misunderstanding each other, or the definition doesn't make the definition inaccurate, either.

RE: What increases status across the board....?

But we are not necessarily stupid.

I can have an ethical stance about only eating plant based food and you can have one where you yaffle the eggs from your own chickens, or honey from your bees.

There's no reason why we can't respect each other"s morals, maintain our own integrity and get married despite our differences.

I suggest we negotiate about whether we let Aragorn watch, mind. laugh

RE: What increases status across the board....?

I still don't understand your objection.

There are many moral stances and truths. Integrity is about being consistent with one's own moral stance, or truth.

I can object to your moral stance, but still have integrity with respect to my own.

You can object to mine without compromising your integrity.

The specific morals are irrelevant to our respective integrities. The integrity of the law of the land which is based upon collective agreement of morals is irrelevant.

It's the consistency between rationalisation and behaviour which spawns integrity.

My daughter once said being vegan isn't about being a saint: if you can't afford unwaxed lemons you just do the best you can. The integrity of a plant based diet interacts with the integrity of the number of coins in your pocket.

All ethical decisions are like that: you do the best you can with the resources available to you.

If your resources consist of a religion, culture and legal system which says women must be stoned to protect society from whatever, then that's what you're going to do until other resources entre into your sphere.

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