I asked this same question when i joined, Its not dwilling on the past, learn from it and go on. but, you are right, its your history, your life, and its what made you what you are now, people might want to say, no unresolved baggage, I dont know if that help you are not, your on the right track, there are some ladies that can explane it better then me. Marge
There are a few of us that dont do that. Let me tell you about one of mine. there is a very nice person on this sight and when i first joined he wrote to me, well, i did write back, and he replyed. well when you first join a site, everyone and there brother are e-mailing you and sending flowers that for me, well, was very over the top. I tried to answer them all and the one that i was really interested in was forgotten. I did not mean to do it, but, it happened. When I found out i had forgotten to reply, I felt so bad, i just let it go. but, It never went as far as yours did. Just be who you are, and Honesty is the best policy, It was Her loss, just hang in there. she will come along. Marge
LOOK! Pick up the phone... tell her how you feel . maybe she feels the same. if i felt the way you do and i had a phone number you bet i'd call. Marge.
I've had a few women here and on another site email and flower me wanting to get to know me......Hey, I don't "owe" her anything either.........right? RIGHT THERE marge
Boy, is that the truth I can get past the attendants at the nursing home, but, everyone is asleep when i get there why is it, all the ones we want to see are far away Marge
No I'm Sorry for the way I came off too, i just kept on typing and said what i was thinking at the time. Its all good this was a great thread good job. Marge
It really depends on what the lady did in her younger years... if she lived payday to payday, and worked hard all her life and played hard all her young life, and now when she is older and has nothing to show for all the hard work and play, she looks around and thinks to herself, why did'nt i do this or that, you know,,, the shoulda, coulda woulda's,,, and regardless of what some might say,,, its not easy to just jump on the band wagon and try again, some of us dont want a boy toy.. and some do not want to be taken care of by someone with allot of money, some just want someone to walk through life with,, to help when we get to a rocky part, and laugh when we do things silly. some might want to sit and have a cup of coffee and just know there is someone sitting there for them, And because, genuine men think along your line of thinking. Im setting here drinking coffee ALONE. MARGE
now that im older I have found that I do stereotype more then before. Whats so bad is, i dont know i do it till after its done, old age is'nt it great Marge
Welcome to the forums post in here so we can get to know you better, I lived in MIO michagan for 3 years, i loved the winters, but, again i like it cold.. Marge
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