With this..I guess some of my expectations have been unrealistic yes...BUT at the same time...my relationships ended because they weren't the right person...in other words...I never cared enough to change them or to be flexible...until now....
I think demands and expectations become unreasonable when...first of all they should not be demands...second of all your partner needs to know what your expectations are and they also need to be flexible...they become unreasonable when your partner has no idea what they are...they are only to make you comfortable with no care for how your partner feels and they are born out of fear....
Funny that always seems to be the wayyyyyyy my dreams end...JUST before the good parts...Thanx Shed that wassssssssss kewllllllllllll...and now I'm gonna go to bed and try to have one that ends with a little more action...
Yes...they will...but it will take them less time...most times when someone is terminal...the grieving process starts then when the person and family finds out...and they grieve all the way through the persons illness....afterwords there is still some grieving to do...but also a sense of relief at not seeing their loved one suffer anymore...being able to be with the person through their whole illness allows them to accept and come to grips with the persons death and gives them a sense of closure of things that need to be said...done etc....
RE: Can you forgive your spouse for anything?Remember you love him/her
Yes very true...words don't mean anything without the actions t back them up.... and it can be regained provided there is action...