Ohhhhhhhhh I forgot to say...I'm fine with either by the way...because it's not about an ending...it's about enjoying each other and loving each other and deciding together at some point...if you want to take that step or not....I don't need a piece of paper to know someone loves me and that's enough for me....
It's a business contract if you see it way...if you just see it as a symbol and a continuation of your love for each other...then it doesn't have to be...I don't think....
Yes they are important...but I don't need a lot of just aquaintances...I never have...I only have ever had just a handful of real friend and I am quite happy with that....
I agree...I don't have a lot of male friends in real life...but I can get along good with males and joke around with them...BUT real male friends...I don't think I have any...I know I have a few here...but none in real life.... and it's precisely because of what I said about getting uncomfortable if they tell me they can be just friends or want to be...when I say that's all I want to be...and they end up getting attracted to me....and try to push me when I have said no.....that I just can't be bothered with...If I say I just want to be your friend and that's it...then that's what I mean and I expect men to respect that..
Exactly...and as long as you trust the person enough to know if the other one tries to cross the line...they will deal with it...then it's fine...Just because someone has designs on you doesn't mean that your SO also has designs on them....as long as you know they are true friends to you and not trying to come between your relationship etc then...I think it's fine to have male or female friends...I also think it's nice if you can get other half to know them soooooo they know they don't have to feel uncomfortable....Now for me...if I know someone is my real friend and that they aren't trying to pull some BS on me...I'm comfortable with the friends I have...I don't go outta my way to make too many new male friends that I don't know a lot about...because I have found in the past that if someone gets attracted to me...although they say they only want to be my friend then I get very uncomfortable..and I set them straight but I don't want to deal with them anymore...that's why I don't like to give men I am not attracted to any reason to think I am...I tell them straight out and if they cross the line..I deal with it and they are gone..simple as that....Real friends let you make your own decisions and respect that...regardless because they trust you enough to know you know what you're doing...
Yeahhhhhhh...well I had to have my doctor cut me back on mine to two times a day because all I was doing was sleeping too and my kids were only...and I had to be awake...but I also had to have the pills to cope with the pain...and get the inflamation to go down cause my disc was sitting on my siotic nerve..and severe pain makes me sick to my stomach....
I agree...BUT in the mean time...you do need something for the pain...preferably something that helps too like a muscle relaxer and/or anti-inflamatory...both mixed together is the best depending on the problem...that's the only thing that worked for me..just pain pills didn't touch my pain when I first hurt my back years ago....
This is true...and couples can be opposites...have a knock down drag out debate because they're opposites and argue like hell and still love each other at the end of it all....
RE: Why do we all marry ?
Ohhhhhhhhh I forgot to say...I'm fine with either by the way...because it's not about an ending...it's about enjoying each other and loving each other and deciding together at some point...if you want to take that step or not....I don't need a piece of paper to know someone loves me and that's enough for me....