I am sorry to hear that, wow could only try to imagine. With that said I am unsure what the best thing for you to do other then be there for your sons, dont force them to talk about it right away but soon and if they seem to really change in thier attitude torwards life and or other things then make sure they get the proper counsiling.
Lol thanks you have to actually talk to meet people, or at least know what to say. when I finally break out of my shell, I am sure i will have plenty to say. But damn this shell is comfortable, just really boring is all.
I have tried but it always seems I come into and resond at the death of a thread, was begining to think it was caused by me untill I read in another thread it happened to other people a while back.
Ok I am not really new to this, but might as well be. I have been on here for a few months now my expectations are not have meet someone by now but to have at least established a few friendships in which to engage conversations with from time to time would be nice. Thing is I have this problem, I am not good at small talk. I know your probably thinking well not sure what to tell you or why are you online trying to meet people then, I ask myself the same question sometimes. I said I have this problem right well its not limited to just online. I dont know I guess growing up we never really had small talk go on in the family, if we tried to say anything when out in the living room all we got was shhhh Im trying to watch this or wait untill the next commercial. How is it that something so simple can be so difficult, I dont get it. I am sure I am not the only one. So any ideas?
I am guessing because you dont have a picture of your face on your profile. they want a self picture for your primary picture. Then maybe they will let you put a picture of an animal but I dont know for sure.
Guess we as people just need to slow it down a bit, look back at allthe things we have achieved and what we have learned from what we havent none the less appreciate what we have. I dont think to have goals and achieving them is a problem though.
I write and eat with my left hand, swing a hammer with right mainly. catch and throw with my left( only had a right handed mit growing up). I would call my self a confused lefty.
My ex was Hispanic, she was 50% Mexican , and whatever percentage of Irish and who knows what else. The only reason it may have felt different then any other relationship I had been in before is because we where together for 6.5 years and had 2 very pretty little girls together, it was special but did not work out.
seems to me most people get along fine on here, we all have to remember that sarcasim is at times hard to read. Other times people dont seem to have an open enough mind and well with that said that is about just right for a dating site because it may give you an idea as to how the person really is. Maybe I am just babbling, Things happen, words get said then you grow up again and get over it.
never did that but a long time ago I used to order cds from a company via mail, but if they sent me one because I forgot to send in the card saying I did not want anything at the time, I would open it carefully so I could glue it back shut if I did not like it and send it back as return to sender. I guess I figured if I did not order it why should I pay to send it back.
Almost impossible for any of us to truley be able to answer that, every guy as every woman are different from the next. It could be multiple different things. For me when I meet someone that is would like to take it slow for reasons of I have been hurt, also I have 2 daughters that I get every other weekend and well dont feel like investing time and feelings into something to find that she cant handle that my daughters come first. other reasons might be that rushing things causes confusion in which can then take time to sort out, what I mean by that you may feel that you love someone and spend years with them to find that you really only loved the idea of them in your head so to speak. I hope everythiong works out for you how ever it may play out.
I happen to beleave in god, as for earth being hell well it may feel like it at times but its not. Not sure I want to know what the dead has to say, if they are talking to you and saying that there is no god then they must be lost souls they have nothing to say to me. I am not trying to mock you or your opinion, just stating mine. Best wishes to you.
I think you might be confused j/k, let me try to clear it up for you. Men are not hard to trust, boys are they come in all ages. But trust gets tricky if you have been hurt, and well who hasent. I would have to say that fear is why, fear of getting hurt again. fear of a lot of things and well only you can answer that question for yourself.
Well I can only hope that my daughters want to get involved in things like that o and that I can afford it. I think even though its a lot of work its a great thing you getting your daughters involved with school activities.
I would need more information, just because someone is more qualified for a job does not mean they should get it. He knows his friend and wiether or not he is reliable. This other guy might not stick around, but a friend is more likely to. Many reasons to hire a friend, other then just because they are a friend. depending his decision could be right or wrong.
i must have missed something I got 81.285714=81 thats going to bug me now I have to figure it out thanks could have done something else with my friday night. lol
I would agree with everything on the list but #13 if you keep things from the one you want to be with then your not working on a real relationship, I say have no secrets then you have nothing to hide they try to use it against you its see ya good bye.
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o well on with my night now
RE: I could really use some advice
I am sorry to hear that, wow could only try to imagine. With that said I am unsure what the best thing for you to do other then be there for your sons, dont force them to talk about it right away but soon and if they seem to really change in thier attitude torwards life and or other things then make sure they get the proper counsiling.