We visit back and forth all the time and my neighbour, Allana got married to a man from the other end of our country. He made big money, had the home, car, etc....
Allanas' husband wants her to go to work to help out because he is working full time at a lower wage and works part time on the weekend.
She refuses to do so and she says she really loves him but just sits around on the computer all day. I know this!
She is fit and able to work and asked me what my opinion was and after being asked many times and I refused to answer her--I gave her my opinion. BTW, he threatens to leave if she doesn't help out. He is supporting her and her children and his own from his previous marriage and she is blowing it off.
I told her that she better listen up or she will lose him.
She is upset with me now (I don't care--she asked and didn't like it).
When i am having a bad day, I get frustrated at first BUT if it gets worse by the hour--I truly go into some kind of giddy fit. I find everything funny the worse it gets.
He sounds to me like a very immature loser. He doesn't want you and doesn't want anyone else to have you. 3 months of marriage and a slight misunderstanding broke you up? No, he just doesn't want to man up to his responsibilites. JMO.
I allowed myself to get pulled into neighbours dilhema
Yes, it is sad to see this happen when there is full warning.On the bright side--maybe he will spot me.