rasgumby Forum Posts (4,665)

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I see your pic, no clue what you mean

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It would be a dog eat dog world if humans didn't feed any of the dogs!!

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I didn't say all are scum,
again just like a pond.
moss,, but also many types of fish and other wildlife.

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Some are scum, why.. you have a better word for the users and players

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oops.

Time will tell, if it is like any of my previous homes.. she will wait till it is all done.. then she will show an interest

As if to moved out of a dump apartment into a really nice home, without having to put any effort into it.
Most people these days are scared of hard work.

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I think a year is enough time to get to know someone, but they can always change for the worse...But i think if we have known someone for a year, and think honestly that the bad suddenly appeared.. then we were blind, or blinded by love. per say.
Then in time we wake up and see reality.
I really think if we have known someone that long and not see both the good and bad..we just refused to see the bad.

When a person is acting, it is not so hard to tell, an act won't hold up for long if we want to see the truth.
get a lot of conflicting stories, contradicting themselves, facts about their past will change or stories come out only when handy for them and so on. usually when they have something to gain from the story.
anyway.. the facts fall apart in time when someone is acting if we just take off our blinders sooner than later.

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No, But all dating sites attract the same scum, Just like every pond gets moss.

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Got to run, more later.

Only one more weekend to work

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The older Gal, I walked in one door,, right past her and out the other door....

the other, I had dinner and chat a bit and left.
Good thing it was an all you could eat buffet!!

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Sorry, slow because Im trying to eat while I write,

One was 15 years older than me.. lied!

The other had in a picture of a tall slim gal.. but when we met, she was twice my weight.


Why lie?
Do people think that we wont notice

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I just thank God that their cloths stayed on!!
Couldn't have stood to see so much old and ugly naked.

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I have a wooden stake and mallet you can use if you like, keep the vampires away
Who needs the life sucked out of them.

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Thats it!! Shame on them!!

Ken, If you learn you are not a fool,
The fool is the ones that don't learn anything.

The ones that get heart broken over and over by only words written on a computer.

Like I said.. if my heart is going to get broken, It will be in person.

But I will say, I have met a couple from online.
Both times I just had to walk away and shake my head and laugh.

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And being so cute and Independent, I'm sure there is a long line of users waiting, both online and the real world.

I can honestly say that many of us men have the exact same problem.
It is a screwed up * me me me * world

My Ex was an RN, we made about the same $$.

but as soon as we got married, she quit her job and when I said that we both need to work to make a good living, she said "I don't want to work?

I said.. hell... I don't want to either, but the money sure is nice.

I said it in nicer words but.. I didn't marry you to support you financially.

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Goodnight all!
catch ya tomorrow night.

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Stop that.. no one is suppose to know

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For me trust is earned, I will give the benefit of the doubt till wronged, but...
I will not give my heart just from the words typed.

for me that is reserved for in person.

but thats just me.
I will not put myself in a position to be destroyed by a web affair.

If I'm going to be hurt.. they can at least do it to my face

Sorry, got to run
Bed is calling my name really loudly.
got to get up really early to work tomorrow

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BTW..
The guy you were talking about in the other thread sounds like a limp D***!
And I'm not talking about the ED

You deserve and will hopefully find soon.. A good Man!!

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I understand where you are coming from.
there are some here that I know are honest, but there are also some that lie fairly constantly. (but that is an extreme).
And yes, there are some, that if we lived closer, I would love to meet them in person the see if they are as they claim.(if it wasn't for the distance)

But I will wait for a conventional relationship with a local.
She will come along when the time is right.

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Just line em up under a huge hickory tree!!

see which ones are left after the squirrels get finished with them

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Some you can trust.. many you can't...
just have to be willing to see the difference..

is part of what I was saying earlier.. many just want to believe anything just to have someone in their life.
this would be needing someone..to fill a void.
Myself.. I am looking for someone to complete me.. not make me.

Know what I mean?

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AHHH!
But picking unwisely and not thinking it through before letting our heart get strongly attached is what causes the depression part of it

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Not all.. but a hell of a lot!!

But there are a few real people as well..

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Not jumping in blindly

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Read back.. that is exactly what I said.

blonds

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I agree.. we have to put ourselves out there,

I'm just saying.. do it in as wise of a way as we can.
not just jump at the first one that sounds good.

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Just seems to me that after anyone has many failed relationships, that they might learn to take it slower, listen to what their mind is really telling them and maybe reevaluate just what it is they are really looking for.. are we looking for the right things and qualities ??

if we keep making the same mistakes, picking the same types.. we aren't learning to well.

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But some of us like the lights on and our eyes open

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You said that much more plainly than I was.. same message... I was just trying to add more detail to it to make people think harder..

Silly me