I'm just different I guess, If I meet the one, I am gone. would rather devote my time to my partner and our life. not sitting here for hours daily as some of the taken..do
Now I want to see just how honest the other half will be. the ones that $$$$ is everything!! where the guy has to have a big fancy house, fancy SUV and thousands in the bank
Good question, There are a few ways to look at it. Having a lot of money is not a requirement for any perspective partner for me, However... she should also not expect me to support her completely!!! I work for a living, I expect her to do the same. Share the load
OMG!!! you are going to be in trouble girlfriend!!
If you read through all of this thread, the OP is not looking for real conversation on the topic, just looking for pats on the back. Any post that don't agree with her 100% or points out fact or rules will be ignored completely.
Says " I just don't get it"
It is a dating site.. whats not to get
Was stupid for someone to send her a nasty email about it!! The guy would have been wiser to just move on to the next female and play nice.
By the way...." If there were sites for just friends- I wouldn't be here" Ummm.. there are thousands.
On the other hand, it is nice to have members here that started out single and found someone here, to show that the sites work.
But.. to post such a detrimental thread, and expect only positive comments and ignore all other is pretty silly also.
I really don't care one bit who is here and who isn't... But just to play devils advocate...
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I can understand maybe credit for the bigger things that we really need, like a home or a car...but be realistic!! I have seen many people buy new furniture , not because anything was wrong with what they already had.. they just wanted bigger and more fancy stuff. and thats all it is STUFF. and then actually haul the old/ but still good furniture to the dump
get rid of the credit and force people to live with what they have, appreciate what they have.
save a lot of natural resources!!
Most of these are things that people from our distant past have tried to warn us about. Common sense!!
I am no Holy roller, but when others bash people of faith.. that is one of my biggest pet peeves!!
If faith and/or religion gives anyone comfort when thinking/wondering about death.. how can anyone bash them for it!!
To me this shows such a lack of any compassion, Like saying..How dare you have any comfort if I don't have. You should be just as miserable as I am
Death can be a very scary topic for many people, So if they find anything that gives the peace or comfort about facing it.. we should be congratulating them not bashing them.
Makes me think of credit and credit cards... The more money people have, the more they want if it is something we can't afford right now, is it really something we can't live without? or at least till we can afford it?!
People no longer save for a rainy day.. they charge it and then wonder.. how the heck am I going to pay for it
Sorry folks, got sidetracked with household chores.. how useless
Back to topic.. like in the Church.. they say give up your riches and follow Jesus.. then why are the ones at the head of the Churches, Usually the ones with a lot of Money?
When bad things happen, many people are quick to join in the cause to help.. but often even that is severely abused.. Catrina is a great example.. The red cross said that they had received more money than could be used to help the Victims..thus were going to bank millions for future use.. when it was clear that everyone had given this money to help ONLY the Catrina victims.
Then many people and groups took it upon themselves to hand deliver the needed goods into the hands of the victims!!!
But not only monetary... give of our time, volunteer with a local nursing home and get the kids involved. Most have a program called adopt a grandparent. this helps both the old folks and the kids. Many kids have never known their grandparents, do you remember back to some of the chats we had with grandpa?? Some kids never have those moments.
My son did for years and learned respect for the elders!!
In most cases, I think life is like a torch. starts out burning bright but at the end slowly fades away.
I think that usually.. after someone has come to accept the end..they are just too tired and ready to go, This is a fairly short life and we have to endure a hell of a lot of pain and sickness throughout it. With the condition of the human body, I really couldn't imagine living 200, 300 years or forever.
But for those that follow the Bible.. if you actually believe what it says, the dead know nothing. so then yes.. it is the end... Untill the resurrection.
I know many will argue this point, because they don't want to believe, but look at it like this. IF.. the dead go on living from the time of death, why would there need to be a resurrection? But the good part of it is.. if the dead know nothing..then the being has no idea how long they have been dead before the resurrection! just like- we have no clue how long we sleep each night till we wake up and look at the clock.
I refuse to fear death!! I have even partially written my own eulogy already. and is in the hands of my Daughter along with my will and living will.
In short- "Do not grieve for me for I have passed on to a place where there is no more suffering and pain, Do not cry for me, but rejoyce" I also gave her a cd with the upbeat songs that I want played.
I want a gal that can parallel park, A gal that can cook a meal without asking first.. what do you want to eat! I mean Damn.. if it moos, clucks swims or oinks... I will eat it.
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Excuse me....Are you saying that I shouldn't be talking with others..
Sorry, I will address whomever I wish,