Not a good idea to send it yet, you might only be giving them warning, go to the home and talk yo the directer, let them get the police involved.
but also.. almost all nursing have each resident sign a warning form.. not to keep cash on hand. even if these people are stopped.. it is a really bad idea to keep cash there. anyone can take it,
I would agree with you BUT... I really dont think you understand what it is like in a nursing home... most of these people dont have any visitors at all, is such a sad situation. but most often these people in the home will let it continue just to have some company. but as soon as the $$ is gone.. they stop coming to visit.
but.. if people are stealing from old folks in a nursing home.. you can bet they are stealing from others as well, they need to be caught.
I worked in nursing home for 6 years, This is nothing uncommon. but I wouldn't be surprised if it is staff. just hard to say.
what relation is the person suspected of taking the $$$$ ? how exactly does the man feel about this happening?
as far as getting $$$ out of his account to go shopping....just don't get the cash out till he is ready to go shop.easiest solution.
if need be, he can request that these people not be allowed into the nursing home.
myself... I would have the home call the police. they can do either of 2 things. 1. set up a camera to catch whomever it is 2.forget what it is called, but there is a powder that they can put on bait money, then when it is stolen, they make everyone in question put their hands under a black light,, their hands will glow from the powder.
Myself, I just can't stand a thief.. I don't care who it is
I had a gal so big on the back of my bike that I couldn't turn. the front tire was loosing contact with the ground. had to have her get off to turn around.
Till we find out.. This person is not at all what they seemed like on the internet and phone. it is a completely different world when people actually live together. then we find out who they really are.
This is why I want to date someone close and get to know them in person.
I am not saying others are wrong for taking the leap.. just saying... BEWARE!!!
To put it simple.. following our heart can get us in some really nasty situations, especially if we don't think in through with our mind first.
reality is.. money can be a huge issue! what if someone were to move to another Country..spend everything they have to live with the love they met here. then a month later,, completely broke,, the relationship falls apart.. what do ya do??????
kicked out on the street, broke and no where to go, and no way home. What do ya do
as I said, I analyze.(THINK THINGS THROUGH) no telling what we can land in when making blind leaps
I have read every reply,, interesting topic! I was in this situation almost 20 years ago, when I moved to South Dakota. (860 miles) She moved with me, but was so homesick that she couldn't take it. Really broke my heart, but I finally told her to go home.
as I got older, I have become a severe analyzer. I look at every aspect.
no, I would not move myself. for many reasons. I moved back here to be closer to my family, I own my home (first real house). and as we age- it is harder to find a decent job. and many other reasons. I would be happy to share my home with a special someone, but it would take a hell of a lot of discussion first. But it don't have to be moving to another Country.. even 1000 across this Country can be very tough for someone.
Honestly.. I have met many wonderful and beautiful ladies here, and the distance is usually the stopper
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RE: I need your input
Not a good idea to send it yet, you might only be giving them warning,go to the home and talk yo the directer, let them get the police involved.
but also.. almost all nursing have each resident sign a warning form.. not to keep cash on hand.
even if these people are stopped.. it is a really bad idea to keep cash there.
anyone can take it,