Best relationship I ever had, she was about 12 years younger,, was fantastic, but we moved over 800 miles away and she got so homesick.. so I finally told her to go home..that was a killer.
Thats just it, I said MANY... Not all. I just look at both sides of the coin. But also agree.. I to would stay alone before being with the wrong partner, patient.. I am willing and able to wait.
One good example.. I have a younger friend here that met a gal online...she lived in another state, both claimed to have good jobs, nice cars and he claimed to have a home. she moved here, then in reality, neither had jobs for a long time, no cars at all, and they still to this day live in a cheap roach infested apartment living on necec and food stamps and whatever handouts they can get from local churches....
Most likely no, A lot of this depends on 1.what all we own 2.our financial and living conditions. 3. does she have kids?
I am just realistic. and NOT looking for flings or one night stands.
have just moved here, own my home, and kids are grown. All is paid for, so all I have to pay is taxes and utilities.
so no, not going to sell it all just to move somewhere else and end up paying rent or house payments for someone else.
So, meeting is in the hopes of starting a relationship, so why waste $$$ to go see them far off unless they are willing to move here, I have raised my kids, so it is my time, WONT start over with someone elses kids, but also based on reality...if she has kids, and Daddy is still in the picture, usually she can not leave the state with them or much less to another Country! so then it becomes a matter that the Man is the one that HAS to relocate.
this is a different matter entirely for a man that has nothing, owns nothing.. then he has nothing to loose. and by what I see, if he owns nothing and no job and in many cases has a criminal history and or has been in prison.
Am I over thinking it? Thats just me.
sad thing is.. Many women are so desperate that they buy all of the lines from these guys just because she don't want to be alone.
When we visit a friend in their home.. do we not follow their house rules and treat them with respect?? I'm sure if we don't.. this would not be a friend for long and we would be asked to leave.
same here..when you join...you agree to follow the CS rules. if you wish not to do so you are free to leave. or CS has the right to help you leave
WTF??? I thought you kinds looked like a hamster!!
I had a gerbil long ago..it kept getting out and I would have to chase it around the house forever to catch it. Finally one day I got sick of it and decided to FLUSH it. thru it in and flushed like 6 times..damn... those things can really swim!!! he just would not go down...still swimming on top so I decided, if he wants to live that badly he deserves to live, so I put him back in the cage.
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second. if blocked or banned..The mods usually send you an email and tell you why, it is not as if cap wasn't told why he was blocked.
third.. even starting this thread to discuss another member or to argue with the MOdS decision is against the rules...
I would suggest everyone read the forum rules before posting, if you havent done so, I would suggest doing it now.
Well hi there young stud, do you want my address or just emails . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . OK..... I' so full of shizits sometimes
I think Maybe you should.... like: Do I look better with my hair up or down? should I leave my nails long or short? should I shave my legs 2 times per week or once a year? Do I look better with my teeth in or out?
Had not read your profile before, just did, clears up some of the confusion.
1, is she decided to move on.. you have to do the same. if she was actually texting someone at 120 mph then she is an idiot anyhow, don't ya think?
let it go and start over, make up your mind to get over her and heal, 2.Make new friends, change your profile. Gloom and doom will only run everyone off that reads your profile. If I were you, I wouldn't even mention the accident unless you start getting close to someone, then discuss the accident in private, such as emails.
get your heart cleared out first. after you are over her, then you can just be you again, then you have so much more to offer a perspective partner,
I don't mean to be blunt, I just am. sorry...but Is your thinking always this scrambled? If so, I would say that you need a lot more time before even thinking about a relationship, get you fixed first, then worry about adding someone else to the mix.
RE: can small turn you on?
Just for you.. Hope this turns you on!