There is no god. God is a myth created to snare weak willed persons into dependency on a supposed omnipotent figure that can help them when they need help! And at the same time, fleece the money pockets of dependents!
I went out with many older women when I was young. It was never with anything permanent in mind - just for a good time and good friendship. And it maybe something that older women should keep in mind when dating younger guys - they just want a good time first!
RE: how long one needs to be on a dating site before a result?
Had a couple of connections (and some misses) and have met a few really nice ladies!