I find that some men are shy ... the gentle approach seems to work best. If you like the look of someone just go for it. If they are friendly and receptive, you might have found someone.
By doing what I do... don't post in them and let them pass into the CS archives with a big 0 in the post counter...
We need to make some changes here... I know that everyone is entitled to their opinion and to post what they like within the rules. I found that not responding or joining in the petty fights and stupid threads keeps me here.
I need this site too keep me sane when things are not going well. I refuse to let silly idiots make me leave. There are just too many great people out here for me to give up..
In my experience chemistry is that thing that attracts me to someone, physically and emotionally. It is not the lust and love at first sight thing, for me. It is more that I feel comfortable and happy with that person. If I don't feel the chemistry, spark whatever, I don't want to be with that person, in some cases, I feel repulsed.
I have met a lot of new people in the past year, I have liked a lot and felt lust for a couple and had a true connection with one. He is still a friend and someone I love to be with, but we won't ever settle into a permanent type relationship for a lot of reasons.
I suppose it is different for each person. I connected on a site with one man and we were so compatible and got on very well on all levels possible via a remote connection. Once we met, we both felt a lot differently, it is not that we didn't know what the other looked like, we did use web cams to speak. It was the fact that we did not connect physically. No chemistry. I take it seriously and wish there were some way to get around it..
Any ideas would be welcomed. BTW the slow building of a long term relationship is great too, but for me they turn out to be friends rather than lovers..
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RE: Say Something... No need for names, but names are welcome too. Be Nice.
Wine to celebrate perhaps