Mine is angry too and since we are living it now, doubt that pointing out that he is angry and needs to handle it will help. Your priority should be yourself. You need to do whatever is necessary to protect yourself and to ensure you don't get hurt personally or professionally.
Until he starts to resurface, you can't do much to help him... Help yourself.
You gave me good advice this weekend, I am giving you the benefit of my recent experiences with my angry unhappy and confused spouse.
You can talk to me anytime you need to... I will email you my mobile if that will help..
LOL you don't know me.. believe me I am more than capable of fighting back.. That would work if the person I was dealing with was 100% stable, unfortunately he is not. The laws in the UK are much different than in the US, so I do have to be careful and to be honest, I don't want a nasty split.
I appreciate your point of view and would probably feel the same not knowing the whole story... I was upset and venting last night, hoping my CS family would provide some support, which they have in spades....
Again.........thanks for all who are posting, it is helping. Being too close to the situation does not make it easy to see. Maybe he is feeling a wee bit guilty or maybe my prescence is causing guilt.
Wonder why we feel free to hurt people we used to love and are kinder to strangers?!
My soon to be ex is never around, but for some reason he is this weekend... he is doing all he can to hurt and upset me... I am moving out to my own home in a few weeks. Our split is all of his doing and was a total shock to me last year. I have tried to be accomodating and friendly during the whole mess. I feel almost as bad as I did when this all started...
Will things improve soon? I hate to feel so upset and disheartened.
RE: C.S. Matchmakers...come and take a spin...
That's cuz you are so cute the women are all fighting over you....