"....romance doesn't have to be anything big...but the small things you do to show your partner how much they are loved and appreciated....but done completely out of love not obligation or with a goal in mind.... "
right on hugz .......i totally agree!!!
romance is not dead in everyone...........just in some (thank goodness i'm not one of the "some" )
no such thing in this case...........he's of age, you're of age..........he's ok with it......get over the age thing and enjoy it..........ya only go round this world once ..........LIVE IT UP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i got married and had my kids shortly after high school, so worked convenience stores to pay the bills and raise them as a single mom........went to school at 30 to "better myself" as an RMA (registered medical assistant...basically an LPN just a new name with less schooling and cheaper pay)decided it really wasn't for me and tried a few other things in between and lo and behold i'm back managing convenience stores lol........what can i say i love it
a little input yes, like places you absolutely would not enjoy going with him..........but other than that, i think it shows part of what the man is really like inside whether he plans just a walk along a trail, or a horseback ride, or a romantic boat trip or something outrageous like jumping out of an airplane........i guess i'm just a different breed of woman
ah ship here's where that weird funky thing about women comes in...............note i said that was my opinion! yes planning things together is great.......but on a first date or even a fiftieth, it's nice if he has it planned and it's something out of the "norm" that shows me a side of him that i may not have seen yet......that's how i learn about someone.
depends on how long i've known the person and what our interests are ........and if it's a "friends only" date or a date to "see where this goes"
but if you can surprise me with something different than dinner and a movie, your a step ahead of the game i like someone who can actually plan a date............not show up and say ok what do you want to do............if you took the time to ask me out, take the time to show me your interested in letting me know who you are by planning something!(jmo of course!)
RE: for woman only
druidess have you been reading my diary???