well purdy lady........i say if a man/woman is so caught up in looks........let em move to cali and they can have all the silicon parts they want(sorry Robert.....yanno i loves ya )
i think looks are important in a way because you have to have a physical attraction when dealing with relationship issues.......but it's like that age old line............you can't tell a book by it's cover...............i've seen some awesome covers, that had the crappiest stories
looks can be overcome by a great personality and heart!!
i'd love to meet a few people here ........ some people i call friend who'd i like to talk to in person, and a few i hardly talk to at all but i enjoy their posts and would love to get to know them better and bask in their wisdom
No matter what has happened in the past, you have to keep in mind "all men/women" are NOT the same. There are plenty of bad ones, but on the flip side there are plenty of good ones.
My advice to a friend recently with the same type of problem was to sit down, write a list of all the things that attracted you to the person (for each ex), see where the commons are that pose a problem.........then write another list of the things you do want in a partner............mix the 2 and there ya go......look for someone without the problem traits and all the good things you found in those past partners plus the good things you do want. ......................low and behold she did listen, has a great man one i wish i had met first lol j/k , but they are doing well.
There is hope out there always.........and wrong city or not, if you don't fear travel you will meet lots of lovely people here to choose from!!!
went alone after my 2nd divorce......had lost a lot of friends because of him and so i had noone to go with and i needed to prove to myself that i didn't "need" anyone for me to have a good time........it was great therapy
I have my kids and at this stage in life i really don't want more........i prefer to date men who already have kids or don't want kids(which oddly enough I'm not finding enough of those type of guys...even the older ones seem to want kids ) i don't mind sharing a partners kids.......but no more are coming outta my body
been married twice ......won't say i'll never do it again that was how i ended up married the 2nd time .........so maybe someday i'll find my lucky charms(not the one in the cabinet obviously) and try for #3...........right now i just gotta find a man who can actually deal with me
IMO if you're ashamed of your family and friends seeing you here......maybe you shouldn't be here........there's no shame in looking for someone to share your life with..........show a face, women(real women) like it better!
RE: Gonna Be A Bear
Oh my toooo funnyloooove it
i wanna come back as a cougar