Sounds more desperate than foolish. Don't mean that in a nasty way. Just that the need to be with other people seems to drive us to keep trying over an over, no matter what the cost to our health, wealth and self esteem.....
The drive to the act of procreation overpowers just about everything on earth. To act out that courtship dance over and over, no matter that there is no progeny.
People make up scenarios around it, but down to absolute basics it is our only reason for living.
Just the human version of the salmon or the octopus.....
That can't be taken as one in a hundred. Somepeople check back often to see if their post has been answered, so same people over and over, not hundreds of new ones.....
Unless you had a list of names you wouldn't know for sure, so you can't accurately make the statement that one in a hundred reply. It's a lie at best........
I thought you'd met someone on the site, so why care what other women do...[/quote
Hi Oslo Glad somebody else thinks like I do.
Can't believe the cheek of him, starting a thread complaining about the women who piss him off when he chases them, when he already had a thread saying he and angelface were an item. Not only that, but started that tryst before he was finished with the one before.
Some catch he is indeed, having so many on the go at one time. Not someone I'd respect for sure!!!
Now he recons he can put manners on the female population.....big joke that is.
If he was within physical reach when he said that, he'd have been lynched for certain, and well deserved too.
Culture and language aside, that is just ignorance at it's most basic. Only a conniving two faced little back-stabber would do such a thing.
Wonder how many of these posts he has reported so far?.......
Sounds like my time of life right now..... "The race among the ruins"...... It has always been an ongoing process of changes and learning and improving to the best of my abilities, but as I get older, I find that those capabilities change and are more limited. Harder then to face a fading future and a slower pace of life.
Recently the time has come for big changes that will put the last pieces of the jigsaw in place to give me some peace of mind, (what mind is left that is). I have always been one of those people to face life as it happens, (if I can see it about to happen on a concious level).
I think I had been sub-conciously avoiding seeing what was happening recently though, but the mind has a way of personifying hidden agendas in the body, until untimately we face everything.....
You know you are a bit past it, when they start telling your kids before they tell you..............Anyway, I've made arrangements to rightify the by-roads to get me back on the straight and narrow..... and so life goes on............
The pleasantest part of a man's life is generally that which passes in courtship, provided his passion be sincere, and the party beloved kind with discretion. Love, desire, hope, all the pleasing emotions of the soul, rise in the pursuit. - Joseph Addison
"By persistently remaining single a man converts himself into a permanent public temptation"
"One can always be kind to people one cares nothing about"
"Talk to every woman as if you loved her, and to every man as if he bored you, and at the end of your first season you will have the reputation of possessing the most perfect social tact."
"Those who are faithless know the pleasures of love; it is the faithful who know love's tragedies."
I thought that all the women on here were into you in a big way, so I just presumed that they were all falling at your feet and fawning over you all the time.........except me of course.
Still best to ask to make sure though....... A simple "are you flirting with me?" might do it.
I used to write a few years back. I found it cathartic too. Later I went competative and got into the maths of form poetry, because I liked the challenges in writing it.
This is one I wrote after a relationship didn't work out.
Spring Clean
I've cleaned the cupboards, left all bare even the place where once you were, I forced the lid down on the pain of loving you, and sought to gain some semblance of my life, before your echo on my bedroom floor.
I cleaned the ashes from the fire, scattered the heat that was desire. I made the beds a place to sleep more hours, not a dreamer's leap into entanglement, and then... I hung my apron up again.
RE: after
You don't see them refusing to mate though do you? No different to us. No matter what happens we still go after a mate.