Sitting here contemplating how I am going to make my son feel less sad about not being able to come home for Christmas. He is staying in Kiev with his girlfriend who will be 6 months pregnant by then and has been very sick throughout, so cannot fly. My contemplation is around whether I should face -27c weather to bring Christmas to him instead.
I'm also a bit stressed out because I have a solo exhibition on Friday next and don't like putting myself out there like that in a public setting usually.
Everything changes with time and maturity or lack ofit, and relationships are just a refelction of that. It is no different to changing what we want from ourselves over time.
This statement is typical of (thin) people who have no understanding of the number of causes of people overeating. If it were that simple don't you think everyone would be doing it?
Extraverted Intuitive Feeling Judging Strength of the preferences % 1 75 25 33
ENFJ type description by D.Keirsey ENFJ Identify Your Career with Jung Career Indicatorâ„¢ ENFJ Famous Personalities ENFJ type description by J. Butt and M.M. Heiss
ENFJs are the benevolent 'pedagogues' of humanity. They have tremendous charisma by which many are drawn into their nurturant tutelage and/or grand schemes. Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. But it's usually not meant as manipulation -- ENFJs generally believe in their dreams, and see themselves as helpers and enablers, which they usually are.
ENFJs are global learners. They see the big picture. The ENFJs focus is expansive. Some can juggle an amazing number of responsibilities or projects simultaneously. Many ENFJs have tremendous entrepreneurial ability.
ENFJs are, by definition, Js, with whom we associate organization and decisiveness. But they don't resemble the SJs or even the NTJs in organization of the environment nor occasional recalcitrance. ENFJs are organized in the arena of interpersonal affairs. Their offices may or may not be cluttered, but their conclusions (reached through feelings) about people and motives are drawn much more quickly and are more resilient than those of their NFP counterparts.
ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than most, and are at risk for being hurt or even abused by less sensitive people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can bear.
TRADEMARK: "The first shall be last" This refers to the open-door policy of ENFJs. One ENFJ colleague always welcomes me into his office regardless of his own circumstances. If another person comes to the door, he allows them to interrupt our conversation with their need. While discussing that need, the phone rings and he stops to answer it. Others drop in with a 'quick question.' I finally get up, go to my office and use the call waiting feature on the telephone. When he hangs up, I have his undivided attention! Functional Analysis:
I don't collect things, but I never throw out presents that people give me in gratitude for something, and sometimes they turn into collections over time.
Keep diaries and write in them every day. When you are ready to write there is a free site I have often used called " allpoetry.com ", where you can upload what you have written, prose, and poetry, novellas, all sorts of things, and professional writers will give you honest critiques on your work. They also have links to publishing houses etc for when you are ready to put it all together in book form. Hope this helps.
As to not living long, what you do with kids every day is important, not what you write in a book, because what they remember of you after you are gone is the time you spent with them having fun, not something they read in a book afterwards, (that you were too busy writing to spend time with them).
RE: Well
You can sleep on the planes.