I just think it is nice to see someone who gives a damn. I really hate the bullying and putting down of women I see on here, usually by men you wouldn't spit on if they were on fire.
Couldn't happen to a nicer lady. Hope they treat you like the angel you are. Thanks for your friendship here and FB. It has meant a lot. I wish you joy and love.
I have been looking for a good recipe for a while now. I love chai and used to drink it often when I visited Indian friends of mine.
It is quite similar to Mesa Chai that is drunk in New Mexico in the US too, except I think the Mesa version is sweeter, and they make it in an instant version that you can buy in a tin.
Isn't that just a tad cynical and a form of injustice in itself, demeaning what for some women are genuine illnesses? You are not showing yourself in a great light here.
Since it isn't in the jokes sections I have something else to add on size. There are many reasons that people are big or overweight or out of proportion, not related to bad eating habits.
Now while this rarely happens in men, it very often happens in women, often related to hormone imbalances, diseases such as MS, (more prevalent in women of a certain age), diminishing bust sizes after breastfeeding for instance, leading to disproportionate shape, ie: bottom heavy. Arthritis and other inherited crippling diseases, leading to an inability to exercise, also certain meds that increase appetite or slow metabolism.
If men were showing genuine feelings, (as defined by women), for someone, then none of thiese things would matter. There wouldn't even be discussions about whether size mattered in either gender...
From studies I have read, size invariably matters more to men than to women, who are more forgiving of size, big or small, in favour of spiritual or attitudinal characteristics.
I think, too, that women understand better how little a shape matters, when they take on so many shapes in their lifetime, including pregnancy, which distorts the figure completely, and where the aftermath of pregnancy often leaves skin stretched beyond repair, no matter how much exercise they do.
A woman's experience of shape is wider than a man's in many ways, since she knows that she is capable of loving all shapes and sizes of people, from babies to geriatrics just for whom they are, and not for their ever changing sizes.
I think a woman's essence is based in nurturing...
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RE: bad manners
I like your style.