My sister gets along with Sam good although his behaviour is beginning to affect her. She doesn't blame Sam as she believes he needs all of exactly what you mentioned. She is concerned and wants him to live a happy life.
She feels she is fighting a losing battle. Thank you for reading and responding. All advice is helpful.
My sister is not a member here but is aware of my participation here. She asked me to write this thread for you to give her your feedback/opinions/advice. I apologize for not being able to condense this in shorter form but all the facts need to exposed in order for you understand all the facts.
She married her husband of 5 years. He has an 11 yr old son who he shares 50/50 custody with his alcoholic ex wife, dad is straight as an arrow. My brother-in-law has him 4 days/week and the mom 3 days/week. My sister started dating her now husband since his son was 6, I will call him Sam.
Since my daughter started dating Chris, Sam has had behavioral issues. Sam is anti-social and prefers to spend time with adults only (even when my sister and husband visit with couples who have kids) he will ignore the kids and will hang out with the adults, he plays mature content videos games for way too much time, when he isn't playing video Gomes, he watches world news, he refuses to take up any after school activities and his mom and dad are ok with that, he is overwhelmed by fear and anxiety and he won't stay alone at home even if it's just for 30 minutes and if he is not in sight of my sister, chris or his mom, he panicks. His problems have escalated over the years.
Dad is in denial and his mom just doesn't acknowledge his behavior so nothing is being done about it.
My sister works with special needs kids and is trained to pick up on things that other's may not. My sister and communicated her concern with Chris but he just sweeps it under the rug. My sister want Sam to get help but Sam's parents are not on the same page. My sister feels her hands are tied and it's affecting their marriage and she is considering divorcing him.
She is asking for thoughts/opinions/advice.
Should she leave the marriage or stay under these conditions?
A lot of people knew that myself and the other woman were both banned at the same time.
My response was meant to advise you to be careful what thread you create even without name shaming, which I didn't do in my thread that got me banned. Even though you don't name names you could wind up like I did.
I'm also guilty. Sometimes the things he posts makes my skin crawl and I can't resist, but I don't post as often as in the past. Now I just don't read his threads at all so I don't feel tempted.
Yeah, I'm not sure. What I do know is that there are people who keep posting on his threads and entertaining him. There are also people who are calling him out on his bs but those people are fighting a losing battle because nothing anyone posts will get through to him because he is the KING OF ALL TROLLS, in my opinion.
Oh, I'm sorry. I thought you meant present time for me. Also, when I created the "rumor" thread, I wasn't accusing or referring to anyone in particular, I just meant it as "in general" so I hope everyone didn't take it the wrong way.
As for the misogynist, I just stay off his threads and I too wonder how he gets away with it? Freedom of speech? I don't know.
I've had regrets throughout life but I learned from them and they have made me who I am today. So I try not to make the same mistakes and I've educated my daughter to always think twice and go with your gut. It's always a work in progress.
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My sister wants your feedback
My sister gets along with Sam good although his behaviour is beginning to affect her. She doesn't blame Sam as she believes he needs all of exactly what you mentioned. She is concerned and wants him to live a happy life.She feels she is fighting a losing battle. Thank you for reading and responding. All advice is helpful.