I hate when a guy tries a pick up line with me. To be honest, my brain goes into shut down mode and I start looking around for where my friends are so I can excuse myself.
See, here's the deal with my thought on pick up lines. I used to bartend. I have heard a million pick up lines either being delivered to me or to the patrons I was serving. All were cheesy and not even very clever. Since I was working, I had to smile and pretend to be amused, while secretly rolling my eyes and trying not to gag.
Something to think about Lee....A pretty girl has probably heard a ton of pick up lines by the time you get there and see her. So by the time you get to her, she probably already thinking that you're just another jerk. Try something else that'll get her attention. Find something that will make her laugh or make you stand out from the other guys.
I definitely wouldn't try to take yourself off of it, Kitty. If you are unsure about its effects on you, maybe ask your doctor if there's another med you can try without the effects.
I have a friend who tried to take herself off of Effexor and that seriously screwed her up so much that she ended up in the hospital.
Work with your doc with your concerns. I agree with the doc that its depression that caused suicide, not the med; all the med "PROBABLY" (since I'm not a doc or pharmacist) does is take away that anxiety that people get along with suicidal thoughts and makes it easier to just do it.
Talk to your doc, hon. I'm sure there's other alternatives if you don't care for the way this one makes you feel....
I think it would have a little of every genre in it. Not so much tragedy as most of my life has been wonderful, but it's had some big downs. Hopefully though it'll have a wonderful ending
I'm probably going to be disappearing for a while....Maybe permanently, I don't know yet. I need a break to clear my head. I really have enjoyed those of you I have met; especially Honey & Ambrose; you two are awesome.
I hope to see you all, if I return. If I don't, well I wish you all the best of luck. Take Care All.....
I use my MP3 player mostly for the gym. I have a bunch of the "Best of Rocky" soundtrack and a bunch of fast paced songs to keep me motivated at the gym.
Other than that, its got the Rolling Stones, The Who, Johnny Cash, H.I.M., L.A. Guns, Neil Young, Contraband (early 90s combo band from some hair band groups), Sammy Hagar, AC/DC, Rob Zombie, and Destiny's Child.
I was thinking today: What misconceptions do people have about where you live?
People hear Nebraska and think farmland. I actually had someone ask me if we had a lot of problems with cows causing traffic jams. I said, "Yes. The Local McDonalds at lunch time ALWAYS has a back up".
Yes! You should be very hurt and she doesnt sound like a friend. Making comments about her new friend having all his parts is cruel and unnecessary, knowing that you cannot help that you're an amputee. I would be kicking her to the curb for being like that.
And yes, I am friends with one of my ex's. I'm on good terms with most of my exes, but not friends. I'm not on good terms with two. The one I am friends with is a wonderful guy, but it took us a year after we split to become friends...A chance meeting got us talking again. BUT he would never, nor would I to him, say anything that was mean and cruel to me. We're just there for each other. When my computer crashes, he's the one that fixes it for me. I help him out with advice when he asks my opinion and we hang out. We just wanted different things in life and it didn't work out as neither of us could find a reasonable compromise.
I am Wiccan too. Have been for about 10 years. I don't care what other people want to think. I am, who I am. I'm a good woman who loves her family and friends. I'm kind to animals. I have morals and beliefs. I donate to charities when I can.
I take those who want to criticize and let it go in one ear and out the other.
I just added a pic of my family & I to my profile. You can see that huge belt my brother one. The pic is not the best, but heck, I'll get some more from my baby brother soon.
LOL, I still go to the bars with my friends; maybe once a month. When I do go, I wear a fake engagement ring. That way I can still hang out with my friends without some dude trying to pick up on me...Though occassionally you do get the scum bags that see my ring and still try to pick up on me.
Hmmm, I was just listening to some George Strait tonight:
You think you've had enough You're ready to give up On that little lie they call love Then out of the blue clear sky Falling right into your hands Like rain on the desert sand Its the last thing you had planned Out of the blue clear sky
Thanks Nightlady and yep, he's all mine. I'm very happy about that.
Its funny when you're about to give up. I had profiles on a bunch of sites and the day before I had deleted all my profiles with the exception of this one because I enjoyed the forums and the friends I have made here. I even wrote a blog on my Myspace saying that I'm done with dating and how I was just going to be happy on my own with my family and friends. I'm very glad that I didn't delete this profile.
Good luck on finding a gym partner. I gave up on that, but found a way to motivate myself. Usually 6 days a week. Though I haven't gone the last two weeks, which I kick myself in the butt for. I had a weeks worth of Overtime, then I ended up getting sick and am still getting over that.
My motivation came from my brothers. They both are fighters and so they are in top shape. I am thin and always have been (good genetics), but I ended up getting a tummy somehow. I felt bad about myself, looking at my brothers and then at myself. I used to go to the gym with my friend Phil (who I have known since I was 12 and am best buds with his wife now), but then his hours changed so we never could work out at the same times. Then my friend Amanda wanted to go to the gym with me and always flaked out. So that left me to do it on my own.
Motivation paid off though. I dropped 12 lbs and 3 inches of waist. I'm still toning up the tummy. I don't want to lose anymore weight since I'm more than fine with that, but the stomach still could use tightening.
Anyway, I wish you luck with finding a gym partner or finding the motivation in yourself. It is always more fun with someone else.
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I said, "Yes. The Local McDonalds at lunch time ALWAYS has a back up".
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I will! I love karaoke.