There was a guy who looks like the op that was starting me down at the gas station,i felt alot of angry men around today..lol..so I SAID TO HIM,,'You look very strong with your nine inch arms..''..
and a lady in the back said,''Sir..we all know you're stronger than all 6 people in this gas station combined,can you please move the line forward??'...
And my observation has been that those who were able to forgive....we're able to move on with their lives and find a certain degree of happiness,and those who werren't.....stayed invalid.
And as Tom used to say,..''I know there's alot of victims out there and my heart goes out to you,but yuo're gonna remain a victim until you learn to forgive.'
Forgiveness doesn't mean to like the person who wronged you or understand why the person wronged you..Forgiveness means I release YOU AND I release myself from whatever hurt or damage was caused. was caused.
I release it.
Forgiveness is also not saying it's ok...don't do it again,type of thing.
I had to drag that out of my mind...its not ok.
It's not ok..its never ok......if my contracter robs me of money and doesn't pay me..it's not ok for him to go and rip me off,but I RELEASE the debt.
I let it go..
and sometimes it takes time..and so does forgiveness,its not like turning on and off a lightswitch.
It's a process.....and sometimes takes along time.
You know its funny you mention this.I was minding my business after work today,and some guy walked behind me and tapped me on the SHOULDER.... asking for directions.
I really am man...God looks down on me...I'm sure..and says..I just GOTTA GIVE THIS GUY a ltttle something,because he's so stupid,he doesn't know what he wants.
I really am man...God looks down on me...I'm sure..and says..I just GOTTA GIVE THIS GUY a ltttle something,because he's so stupid,he doesn't know what he wants.
Idols are people that we take,put on a pedestal,wait for them to make a mistake,and destroy them,which is the reason we put them on a pedestal in the first place. Hero's are everyday people who mkae mistakes,and they make lots of them...but they get up and keep going..and make more mistakes..
RE: What is a 'bad boy"? [for the ladies..]
SMART LADY.