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RE: When Do Attempts At Persuasion Become Controlling and Manipulative?

How do you know this a random conversation or topic?

An objective observation? That is not your tone.

RE: When Do Attempts At Persuasion Become Controlling and Manipulative?

So I should change my behaviour but he gets to continue his? Have I got that right, Venus?

RE: When Do Attempts At Persuasion Become Controlling and Manipulative?

Tiresome indeed.

RE: When Do Attempts At Persuasion Become Controlling and Manipulative?

I have posted on 4 of the 12+ relationship threads that Ambrose has started. And I don't have to attempt to "make them about me," for obvious reasons. laugh

Unless you've experience this kind of manipulation yourself, I don't think you can understand just how creepy and upsetting it can be.

RE: Halloween is coming.

Hi! The following is a very good basic pumpkin pie recipe. I usually double the recipe and bake two pies at a time to use up a whole can of pumpkin - and because one pie doesn't usually last very long! Serve with fresh whipped cream. Yum!

P.S. You can use any pure canned pumpkin - doesn't have to be E.D.Smith's.


E.D.SMITH®’s Traditional Pumpkin Pie

INGREDIENTS:
2 eggs
1/2 can (28 oz/796 mL) E.D.SMITH® PURE PUMPKIN
1 cup (250 mL) packed brown sugar
1 tsp (5 mL) ground cinnamon
1/2 tsp (2 mL) ground nutmeg
1/4 tsp (1 mL) ground ginger
1/4 tsp (1 mL) salt
3/4 cup (175 mL) evaporated milk
1 (9-inch/23 cm) unbaked home-made or frozen deep dish pie shell

PREPARATION:
1. Beat eggs lightly in medium bowl. Add E.D.SMITH® PURE PUMPKIN, sugar, cinnamon, nutmeg, ginger and salt - stir until well combined. Blend in milk. Pour filling in pie shell. Bake at 425ºF (220ºC) 15 minutes. Reduce oven temperature to 350ºF (180ºC) and continue baking 30-35 minutes longer or until knife inserted in centre comes out clean. Cool.
2. Prep Time: 35 minutes, Cooking Time: 45 to 50 minutes, Yield: 1 pie

RE: The Long Goodbye: The Never-Ending Virtual Romantic Relationship

Ambrose, we both know that you were not "perfectly reasonable" in our last conversation. And that I'm going through a hell of a lot here with Mom's death, looking after Dad, and on and on.
See the part in red?? That is what personal looks like. Stop doing that! doh

RE: The Long Goodbye: The Never-Ending Virtual Romantic Relationship

Actions speak louder than words.

Sorry, Leigh, if I came off as abrasive. Your suggestion that I somehow enjoy Ambrose's threads was upsetting and I got a bit emotional there. No hard feelings? handshake

RE: The Long Goodbye: The Never-Ending Virtual Romantic Relationship

"Although his choice to share his feelings, pose his questions, and vent about "lost love" through the creation of threads would not be my choice, I do not take issue with it simply because it goes with the territory when we choose a site like CS.....In other words, you run the risk of having your relationship publicized both when it begins and when/if it ends"

No, choosing to be on a dating site does not equal willing to be trashed in the forums.

"But again, I am not posting in judgement of either you or Ambrose."

Lady, you just did.

RE: The Long Goodbye: The Never-Ending Virtual Romantic Relationship

Leigh, it is much easier to be zen if you don’t have an ex plastering the CS Forums with threads relating to your past relationship, believe me!

You’ve said yourself on the forums that you believe people should “zip it” when going in and coming out of relationships. I’m not surprised that you would make an exception in this situation, however. You are using Ambrose’s nickname for me so you are obviously in private contact with him. Should I assume you think his lack of discretion is okay because he is a friend?

Do I not have a right as another CS member to privacy? There is a multitude of other ways that Ambrose can seek “truth, answers and understanding” that don’t involve laying out our dead relationship for him and others to dissect.

RE: The Long Goodbye: The Never-Ending Virtual Romantic Relationship

I'm not interested in yet another debate with you. Your behaviour towards me on the Forums speaks for itself.

Once again, stop posting about me and our relationship on the CS Forums. How would you feel if I did this to you?

RE: Ambivalence: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay

I just received an email from my ex demanding an apology for my post on this thread. I don't believe I owe him one. In fact, I believe HE should apologize to me for starting this and other painful threads about our personal business.

I know how much he values your opinions as he keeps coming back for them again and again.

So here is my question - Does he deserve an apology for my post? Please weigh in here so we can put this to rest once and for all! roll eyes

RE: Ambivalence: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay

Thanks to everyone who has PM'd me about this thread. I appreciate your support at this difficult time.

"I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”
- Maya Angelou

RE: The Goodbye Thread: How you Know, What you Feel, and What you Do, when it's Over

Ambrose, why do you choose to air our dirty laundry on CS under the guise of self-help when you know this causes me pain? With each post, you expose our personal story for everyone’s entertainment.

As I grieve Mom’s death and settle her estate while caring for Dad, you continue to act in ways that cause me further pain. Your last words to me were, “Don’t call me until you are ready to commit.” Maybe one of your CS friends can tell me why I would want to commit to someone who treats me this way?

Or perhaps your friends will dismiss my post as the words of a scorned woman. I hope a few will understand that there are two sides to every story.

For obvious reasons, this will be my first and last post ...

RE: Kitty dilema...

This group advertises a trap and release program for feral cats so they should have the traps . . .

RE: Kitty dilema...

laugh

Annie was really sick when I got her too. And she did not trust humans AT ALL. Her first instinct is almost always to run and hide from people, even over 8 years later. But she loves the humans that she knows well . . . and her adopted brother, Eliot - an orange tabby. Cats are great, aren't they?

RE: Kitty dilema...

Sorry, I don't know the area but . . .



dunno

RE: Kitty dilema...

Hi, Venus. wave

I don't often post but your thread tugged at my kitty-loving heart.

You need a live animal trap. Bait it with a smelly soft cat food and check it every half hour. This trap is basically a long cage-like device that traps an animal by closing the cage door when it enters for the food. I would recommend a small trap if possible so you don't trap any of the adult cats in the area.

I got my second cat this way. One cold fall morning I found her yowling on my doorstep. Whenever I went to get her, she would run. I found that she was hiding under a neighbour's truck engine for warmth and I spent a good part of the morning trying to coax her out. Long story short - I got a live animal trap from a local university, baited it, and caught her in the first 1/2 hour! She was like a tiny Tazmanian devil when I first brought her in the house. She settled down very quickly and by the next morning . . . she was mine! cats meow Her name is Annie.

Your local SPCA might be able to assist you with finding a live trap. You can also purchase them at some hardware stores or an exterminator might have one.

Good luck!

GG

RE: PEOPLE WHO VIEW THE FORUMS BUT DONT POST

wave Hi, G!

<--- chicken

RE: Happy Birthday Mindfful

Happy Birthday, Mindfful!

Sounds like you have a fun day planned. Enjoy!

GG party hat

RE: please won't you SAY SOMETHING?!

Just saw a few of my favourite ladies in here and thought I'd pop in and say . . . SOMETHING! wave

Oh ya, and ANYYYYTHING! giggle

RE: Your True Self!

Touche!

handshake

RE: Your True Self!

I can see that my humour is not appreciated here. I will return to lurching . . . hole

Bye all! wave

RE: Your True Self!

Could you use an editor? dunno

Burn! laugh

RE: Your True Self!

hole wave hole

RE: Your True Self!

I feel your pain. laugh

RE: Your True Self!

Honey, what the h--- is that picture of my butt doing on your profile?!! Didn't I edit that one out?!!! laugh

RE: Your True Self!

Don't forget to name the songwriter!!! rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Your True Self!

I'm new to the forums, do I get a prize?! grin

RE: Your True Self!

laugh

Correcting the copy editor should be a sport!

Good to meet you. handshake

RE: Your True Self!

uh oh

Firstly, I put "holyer" in quotes because I was quoting a previous post.

Secondly, I was joking when I said I edit Ambroses's posts - hence the laughing emoticon after that statement.

I apologize if my post came off as pompous. I was really only trying to state a fact - maybe not that interesting to some or most. laugh

I'm not going to convince you or your ilk anyway so I'll just say - interesting to meet you. handshake Good day.

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