"beat you up"...naaa I dont have "time" for that either. your just a guy who seems to have extra time on his hands and expects/wants a woman to put you and time with you ahead of other priorities she may already have.....there has to be some compromise in all things...am sure theres someone for everyone, so again am sure you will find a woman who will "drop" everything for you...
oh im sure you wouldnt judge anyone like that, its not your style...however i judged myself hard enough for many ppl...but im good now.. but you made it easier to acknowledge on here..
awww dont be ashamed, we all make poor decisions. I like you knew what I was getting into...but for 2 months, I didnt care I was only out to satisify myself, what i wanted, and my needs...it took the whole 2 months before I realized that my actions could ruin a marriage and a family...and my feelings and needs werent the only ones at stake...Im just glad I smartened up..
yeah let me work in a date on short notice...right inbetween football practice, dance class, and a slumber party. it could quite possibly take a week or more to make and find Quality time...oh unless your just after a quickie, then let me just skip lunch and meet you for 15 minutes...
a relationship takes time...thank goodness im in one and he is understanding..
I understand cristina point of view and agree with it...good thread darling!
however as she stated, i dont feel it pertains to gypsy and wolf...i feel their a unique couple who will cherish and care for their relationship no matter where it started and where it ends...
thanks for the thoughts and prayers...i feel better today, I decided last night that i cant be sad as i wait for more news...there will be time to be sad when i hear more...otherwise I dont know what to do.
today im watching my little girl play; today Im not gonna miss another day, Im not cleaning nor doing my daily work, today is full of endless talks and memories, Im not rushing nor am I wasting the time away, today im just watching my little girl play, Im see the twinkle in her blue-green eyes and her big dimpled grin; today is full of milk and cookies, playdough, and painting; Im not gonna missing another day, Im just gonna watch my little girl play...
thanks everyone for the many flowers, emails, thoughts, and prayers...I wasnt sure how i was gonna get through the day yesterday, but I did..we did..thank you
I've said it when my EX didnt like what i said or wanted to argue my opinion of something...i had nothing more to say on the topic and after repeating myself again and again...i didnt know what to tell him to make him happy, content or for him to just shut up.
Or...that i dont agree with "you" on something and theres no way to put it thats its gonna make sense.
Or I have too much on my mind or have thought to much about it and no conclusions have been made...
Im thinking now, i may use that more then i thought...
oh cuss, your on it tonite.... there will be a day, i get even...no clue how, but the day will come....are you feeling lucky? or just a lil bit scared?
RE: Do you really have time for a relationship?
"beat you up"...naaa I dont have "time" for that either. your just a guy who seems to have extra time on his hands and expects/wants a woman to put you and time with you ahead of other priorities she may already have.....there has to be some compromise in all things...am sure theres someone for everyone, so again am sure you will find a woman who will "drop" everything for you...