Always remember, if you forget her birthday and card, smile a lot, go to the loo, book a table somewhere nice....and when you leave the loo make sure you can see her and she's not carrying an axe.
Sommer the rest isn't suitable for a public forum!
But i do struggle every day, and will do coping with everything, and i cant see this ever changing until i see my son and he calls me dad.Nothing other than that will ever be able to make me feel any better, but that's something i have been dealing with quietly for a while.
If it helps anyone else by reading my comments to let them know they are not alone, then that's a good thing.
Other that in the real world i still have to get up every day, feed my cats, look for a job, isn't possible to study...because in my frame of mind that's impossible.But i still get up, try to laugh even when my own family don't know what to say to me, my friends don't know what to say to me, hell even the lady who i sign on is afraid to ask me how its going.
It's like being ill where everyone's too afraid to mention the word cancer, they look at you and can see i look sad but are too afraid to ask.
So i get up and go through the motions! As that's frankly all i can think i can do, bar have a mental breakdown, and i'd rather not go there just yet.
Imagine either a 300lbs woman or man wearing a thong?
Not either will you see the thong, but you wont even want to see it!
I'm not making a judgement about being overweight, as i'm not as perfect as i could be, but the day i put a thong on for anything other than a laugh is the day where i better have won the lottery jackpot or have booked myself in for a lobotomy.
The mother has automatic parental responsibility, and the man has to apply to the court to be granted it, even if the man is on the birth certificate as was my case.
I asked because my son lived with me, and she had all the access she wanted, and she used not to turn up but for one hour before she started work with her boyfriends.
I was asked by the ex to trust her and not apply for custody, and do it voluntarily.So i trusted my ex partner, only for her and her new bloke to basically tell me i had one month, enjoy it, then were taking him.
So i basically had to look after him without any help, because legally i couldn't leave him with anyone, so i had to give up being a publishers agent to do it.....and i don't even want to go into what this cost me financially....but a lot, lets say that.
Had things been slightly different, right now i'd have been happy and wealthy, but life didn't go to plan.
This is where trust gets you,and i cant or wont make the same mistake ever again.
30 years seems very reasonable to host a sports event!
Were holding the Normal Olympics...and believe me if you asked 10 people in London who are taxpayers here i think 7 out of ten couldn't care less and would prefer not the huge bill that will take decades to pay off!
Four psychiatric patients dying each day in NHS care
* Denis Campbell, health correspondent * The Observer, Sunday 12 April
The NHS is today castigated for providing "inadequate" psychiatric help to vulnerable mental health patients, as new figures reveal an average of four deaths a day among those in its care.
Data collected by the National Patient Safety Agency (NPSA) shows that 1,282 people in England died in what it calls "patient safety incidents in mental health settings" in the period 2007-08.
Another 913 patients - more than two a day - suffered what is termed severe harm, or permanent injuries, in such incidents.
The figures include patients who died as a result of self-harming behaviour, including suicide, disruptive or aggressive behaviour, medication safety errors and accidents, although it is not specified how many deaths fell into each category.
Campaigners claimed last night that the high death rates showed that many of the hundreds of thousands of mentally ill people who seek help each year receive a second-class service.
"These figures are shocking. It's a scandal that four people a day are dying while under the care of the NHS, and nearly three a day are ending up seriously harmed. It's an appalling indictment of NHS psychiatric care," said Norman Lamb, the Liberal Democrat health spokesman. The party unearthed the statistics by analysing reports sent by every hospital trust in England to the NPSA.
"These deaths are the result of inadequate attention and resources being given to mental health, despite the patients being among the most vulnerable and needy in the whole health system.
"There's discrimination in the system that disadvantages the mentally ill. The NHS is falling down too often in its responsibility to do whatever it can to protect such patients," he added.
Paul Corry of the mental health charity Rethink was equally critical: "These figures are very disturbing and unacceptably high. Almost 1,300 deaths in a year is far too many. The NPSA data tell us that too often NHS care for mental health patients is poor."
The NHS has reduced the number of suicides in psychiatric hospitals in recent years, said Corry, but guidelines intended to help another vulnerable group - mentally ill people who have recently returned home from care, among whom suicides are common - are widely ignored. "Every mental patient who returns home is supposed to be visited within seven days to check on their mental state and see if they are feeling suicidal," he said. "In places where it's done it helps to stop people taking their own lives. But very often it doesn't happen."
The NPSA figures do not specify causes of death, but Corry said the majority were likely to be suicides. Poor treatment of the mentally ill by the NHS also meant that those with underlying physical health problems such as heart disease and breathing difficulties often had their conditions undiagnosed, which sometimes led to death from natural causes, he added.
A recent NPSA report on patient safety incidents during April-September 2008 shows that 627 people died in 64,353 mental health-related patient safety incidents, though it does not state how many of them were being treated as inpatients on psychiatric wards.
The Kent and Medway NHS and Social Care Partnership Trust had the largest number of deaths - 57 - during those six months. The Northumberland Tyne and Wear NHS Trust reported 49 fatalities, while the Hertfordshire Partnership NHS Foundation Trust had 36.
A Department of Health spokeswoman said: "It would be irresponsible to draw conclusions from this data without knowing the details of each case. But we do know that safety on mental health wards is improving. Suicides have been radically reduced, from 215 in 1997 to under 150 now."
She cited £130m spent in the past two years on acute psychiatric wards to reduce the risk of suicide.
Friends for me now is far easier! Hell i don't want the other to all cry hearing about my life again
Mind you, NIN just announced gigs in London, Manchester and Knebworth (which is so close to me i could throw a stick at) so if anyone wants to go see them get in touch!
Maybe you better go ask your friend how to conduct an amphibious assault.Then ask him how they divide, into 4 man teams.Then ask him how to clear rooms, and what equipment they use
Clearly whatever your reading it isn't my posts!
Who ever said blind shots? And ask your friend where the SEAL Commander will be located!
This is pointless, you clearly don't have a bloody clue about how a sniper works or how they are kitted out to do specific tasks.
Tell you what, ask your friend, or ask someone from the facility in Fayetteville to take you on a course
Then maybe just maybe you'll see the view from a kite sight and be able to see nice clear silhouettes.
But then what would i know, i've only bloody fired the weapons
RobbieM Forum Posts (4,553)
RE: WHAT MEN WANT
I'm always wel behaved, that's the problem! Mind you i did cooh over a couple of cute babies in the post office and a puppy in the car park!Now all i need now is a fluffy alsation to grab, then it's been a good day!