Just hate to put it online, but since you won't contact me personally, guess I've got no reasonable choice.
Trust can be highly compromised when "old flames" come into the picture, and stay there disguised as "old friends". I was born, but not yesterday, even being from the South doesn't make me that gullible. I've not brought any "old flames" into our marriage, cause I understand how natural it is for old feelings to resurface for anyone. We're not immune to it, and it's best to safeguard our committed relationships by avoiding the persons in our past relationships.
Besides the Trust was compromised by much more than that, and I won't go any further, cause I don't think CS wants to see our dirty laundry.
You & I both promised each other before our wedding and after our wedding that "divorce" was not an option for us, NO MATTER WHAT Are you not a Man of Your Word anymore?
I thought this time apart was for us both to have some space to get some stuff straightened out. Seems you're a Quitter
I told your family I was willing to move to be with you when the time was right, but don't guess that's what you want
Don't worry about me, I'm a Survivor; but I would have preferred to have survived this recession that has beat up our marriage so badly with you. I've given you the "benefit of the doubt" until now.
I suspect this together CS site is uncomfortable for you, so I'll end it soon as I can creat another for myself; will be sometime this week; as all I have available is the library computer.
In My Heart, You are Still My LifeMate , but it's broken right now. Good Luck in Love & Life
Well I don't live in Vir-gini, but I do Love to burn wood, in fact; hoping next home will have a wood burning stove as alternate heat should the main system go out in a snow storm or power outage
To me "abandon" means to leave, to forsake, to not protect, provide, or otherwise care for your lifemate
Do you consider "emotional abandonment" a valid type of abandonment in a relationship?
I appreciate your shilvery (spelled wrong ) in this thread, but I think I will better understand when I've read this book, The Man of Steel & Velvet.
Thank you for trying to ask men to "Man Up" and I likewise ask women to "Women Up" cause if both are trying to love their mates with all they have, divorce should not happen; regretably this is not the case
Can't believe I read this thread from start to finish. I usually try staying out of Duds threads as he thinks he knows more about America than us Americans.
Years ago my sister was in France and had to have her appendix removed. They wouldn't let her leave until my parents sent money to pay for her time in the hospital.
Yep, here we are at the end of a another year, and it seems that there's a few "New Year's Resolutions" that are the "ole standbys"...you know, stop smoking, lose weight, etc....etc...etc....well just wondering if this formula would still "turn heads"? Just for the fun of it...not judging anyone's weight...etc...just for the fun of it
I could never imagine cheating on my Husband, or even wanting to "skip out" if he became disabled I mean when you say for "better or worse", doesn't that mean through the "good and the bad". Seems every relationship, ie...marriage has those kind of times; it's when the feelings for each other change..you can't make someone love you when they don't really deep down in their hearts..that's something you can't fix. But heck, sickness, low finances, etc...etc...geesh, those problems are a peach to fix if you still both Love One Another for Life.
Years ago when I worked at Timberland Shoe Company, I had a foreman who was a born again Christian. He would always tell us we would burn in Hell if we didn't take Christ into our hearts and would even set up a tape recorder for playing Christian music during the shift. After about a week or so, I got sick of it and told him where to stuff his b.s. and his music. Never heard any more after that
Trust
Honey,Just hate to put it online, but since you won't contact me personally, guess I've got no reasonable choice.
Trust can be highly compromised when "old flames" come into the picture, and stay there disguised as "old friends". I was born, but not yesterday, even being from the South doesn't make me that gullible. I've not brought any "old flames" into our marriage, cause I understand how natural it is for old feelings to resurface for anyone. We're not immune to it, and it's best to safeguard our committed relationships by avoiding the persons in our past relationships.
Besides the Trust was compromised by much more than that, and I won't go any further, cause I don't think CS wants to see our dirty laundry.
You & I both promised each other before our wedding and after our wedding that "divorce" was not an option for us, NO MATTER WHAT Are you not a Man of Your Word anymore?
I thought this time apart was for us both to have some space to get some stuff straightened out. Seems you're a Quitter
I told your family I was willing to move to be with you when the time was right, but don't guess that's what you want
Don't worry about me, I'm a Survivor; but I would have preferred to have survived this recession that has beat up our marriage so badly with you. I've given you the "benefit of the doubt" until now.
I suspect this together CS site is uncomfortable for you, so I'll end it soon as I can creat another for myself; will be sometime this week; as all I have available is the library computer.
In My Heart, You are Still My LifeMate , but it's broken right now. Good Luck in Love & Life
Peaches