Hiya.. slight correction... some do.. one of my best friends and a couple of my good friends are gay... and none of them are promiscuous... my BF is waiting for 'Mr Right' and is getting less action than me.. which is saying a LOT
I am sorry to have to say but Kissme is right.. and this guy is a manipulative coward.. he wants to have his cake and eat it.. the person he choses to remain with is his wife.... what does that say?... its an age old excuse.. used by countless men who want to play on the side.. "my wife doesn't understand me, my wife doesn't treat me right".. .dump him!! that is the only realistic way of finding out.. though I wouldn't even bother with him then.... cause you will never be able to trust him..
Also ask yourself this.. why are you depending on men to 'make you feel better'... happiness and self worth has to come from within..
Dunno about the never having to say ur sorry bit TBH... my family and I argue.. we are an opinionated bunch.. but thankfully, because we can say sorry to each other and mean it.. we are never annoyed with each other for very long..
Family is unconditional love.. support, and security in the knowledge that they will always be there methinks
Brilliant answer and so true... especially the higher power bit.. if you place ur complete trust in God.. u will never go too far wrong.. he WILL lead you in the right direction.. and that includes I think.. putting the right people in your path..
Good question Serenity... ... honestly? I have done all of the above in the past... I have 'changed' unconcsiously... I have tried to compromise (though there are certain things that I will never compromise on) etc..
Having been there and bought the T-shirt with the battle scars to show for it (so to speak) ... I definitely think the best thing to be is urself.. if you are urself you are most likely to attract (and be attracted to) your own type, and if you are sufficiently capatible.. compromise will be less (cause you will have so much in common).. methinks... am still a work in progress
Oh its true alright ... but its a lil more bitter sweet in real life... and its enduring in spite of the odds... it is very rare though.. so can understand ur confusion..
I blush fairly easily... and it's very noticable too cause I am so pale.... my friends used to tease me when I was younger cause there was this guy that I had a crush on that I literally couldn't pass on the street I used to go so red... ... as soon as they saw him coming down the street they used to start.. I used to have to duck in shops and all... on one occassion I ended up in a fishing tackle shop.. not quite knowing what to pretend to look at
Three brothers, one sister.... we all have our own distinct personalities, so difficult to establish any meaningful nature v nurture argument.. e.g. My brother and I are twins and we are totally different.. he is a lot quieter than me...My Sis is a bit mad (free spririt)..My older bro, confident and outgoing, my younger brother confident but quiet mannered... so dunno.. also my neice is an only child and very confident and outgoing..
The problem with me is I have so many dreams and things that I would like to do.. I just work myself up into a confusion.... I wish I had simple dreams
The sweet pretty perfume... my bro says anyway(he is a Christian Pastor.. Very strong faith).... is the Holy Spirit... the other (I have never experienced) but I can imagine...
hiya Lusc.... sounds like you had a wonderful relationship and that she was a beautiful person... she is most likely looking down from heaven, proud of her little daughter and cherishing the love you both shared... these are the things that one remembers when they go to their home place.. not the sadness..
I wouldn't be against an International Relationship in principle.. how ever you do have to have sufficient contact/interaction in order to move it along... I believe in going with flow however... whatever is for me will not go by me IMO
I don't think it is a sign of disinterest per se... although I have to say.. I am a little old-fashioned in the sense that, while I will offer to go dutch on a date, I wouldn't be impressed if a man accepted my offer, ... I am an independant and generous person by nature, so I don't NEED anyone to pay for me however, I wouldn't be in the least bit impressed with a Guy who was penny-pinching... I wouldn't expect a person to pay all the time either BTW and would insist on my share after a couple of dates.. so in a sense it could be a bit of a test on my part..
One of the biggest causes of stress.. is worry.. worry over things that haven't happened, and may not happened... worry is in fact quite pointless cause it has no bearing on the outcome IMO... if you worry and whatever it is DOES happen.. the worrying won't have made it less likely.. if the thing that worries you DOESN'T happen.. then what a waste of time!.... best thing is not to worry... what I try to do is entrust whatever it is to God.. cause he has far more control over these things than I do....works for me...
RE: Feelings... I was just thinking about them..
Im so sorry about ur buddy..