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RE: What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?

I would firstly think about the following before I replied.
Am I being what they call "love bombed" or is this feeling they say they have genuine. Love bombing is a tactic that both scammers and narcissistic sociopaths use at the beginning of their grooming cycle to ensnare their victims. These can be both men and women.
I would then consider how long I had chatted with them or even dated them. Then I would use my own intuition (gut feelings} and common sense.

It is easy for a person to say "I love you", but another to commit themselves for the long haul in practice.wave

RE: Is anyone really online? I’ve a feeling no one really exists.....

"I’ve not had a single reply.......I know my profile isn’t the greatest but even a thanks but no thanks would be welcome,"

Think of it like this: The ones who don't answer are usually worthless time wasters, breadcrumbers or other bores seeking attention that they never get in real life, so you are spared having to get rid of them and blocking them.
A few tips are, Never contact one who has been on here for a long time as there is obviously a reason for it. Never contact ones with pictures like models as they are either scammers or it isn't their picture. They would have no trouble in a real life dating pool otherwise.
Just use your common sense.
There are very few presentable ones who are genuine on here or any other dating site and the ones who are get snapped up quickly. You will see their profiles on here and see that they haven't been on for weeks or months.
Social media now gives us a much wider internet dating pool which thankfully cuts out the attention seekers, endless hypochondriacs and the other unwanted who are causing the death of dating sites. Also if you meet anybody on here you can check them out by looking them up on Twitter or FB which cuts out a lot of the scammers.
So never worry about no replies. They just aren't worth it. Hope this has been of help.

RE: Why is it that all I ever see is the same females on line? Are they looking for a mate or what?

"Seriously; I've been a member on this site for 2 months now' and all i ever see is the some females on line. According to their profile pictures these are good looking women, and in 2 months they still havent found some one? Are they really looking for a mate or just useing this site just to gabb to one another?
looking for the answer.
Think about it."

There are so many non serious sly girls (The grossly weird or hopeless cases) on here that they will seem to be on here forever. The attention that they get from gullible idiots is like a drug to them which they don't get in real life. After a while they go as the attention dries up and then they create a new profile and keep slithering back. My advice is to dump them straight away as soon as you notice the multi chatting going on or their pathetic attempts at breadcrumbing.
Most presentable women will use their own local real life dating pool or social media nowadays.

RE: Now That I'm 40

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing You crease me up Pat!rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Are some people closer than they should be to there pets ??

Carefulconfused Or we will be getting into bestialityprofessor

RE: why are women so eager to get on their knees

I just looked him up again. "Matched with a full beard and low faded sides, the pompadour hairstyle combined with the gray highlights gives an older man attitude and demands respect."rolling on the floor laughing

Lets see how long he's on here for before he's removed.....

RE: why are women so eager to get on their knees

Have I missed something here? WoW somebody has been found out. Oh it's a scandal! OOOO I just love a good scandal!

RE: Fakes

Those profiles are burned on here now lol

RE: Fakes

Talk about fakes. Have you ever had those people who have made up a fictional life? You always get a tragic story first to see if you are gullible and then they fall in love by the second or third messagerolling on the floor laughing Then the drama begins....They must be texting five idiots at once when they are in contact with you (You can sometimes actually see when somebody is texting at the same time as your messenger window is open with them, but you can't see the texts themselves). Then they will go to great lengths to begin an online argument with you and then they will try and make up to do it all again a day or two later. It's hilarious to watch it if you can put up with their utter drivel for that longsleep
After a week maximum they don't get their jollies from it anymore and they will end things in a drama which would outdo Shakespeare.rolling on the floor laughing If, by the way, you manage to outfox them and won't be drawn into an argument then they will become extremely aggressive. The sheer entertainment value from these mentally ill people is priceless.cheers
We call them "Sly Girls" on here and I'm sure some of you have been plagued by them. I have no idea if there are male equivalents doing this. Anyway if you get one contact you keep them going for the sake of amusement during those times when you get bored.yay

RE: Fakes

It seems to be a trend on here now with those duplicate profiles. With one I saw the woman was claiming that her profile had been hijacked and that hers out of the two was the real one.
I mean what a load of old c*ck! She would have in reality only have had to contact the site about it. They would have looked at both of them and removed the one without the earlier registration e-mail. Some of them do anything to get attention.rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Help an insomniac

Wade through an over crowded mailbox on here with some of the utter drivel there and live the legend! You'll soon fall asleep.

RE: Scammers ? Who else has had them here?

I have noticed that the site has currently cleared out a lot of the scammers from Eastern Europe that were preying on members 40 years old and upwards.The scammers target this age group as they have accumulated some wealth during their lives and own houses etc. and of course the scammer is after money.
I noticed that the membership from some countries in Eastern Europe with ages of 50 upwards have been almost wiped out in some cases.and this is a welcome move in the right direction.
In the case of the USA, however, the numbers of scammers is on the increase. Where residents there have been relying upon blocking members living outside the USA in order to be safe, alas this no longer works as a preventative measure. This is because the scammers are operating from addresses there inside the country. One particular ring has detailed local knowledge of the area that they pretend to come from, but a quick identity check will reveal that no such person exists. The people in their photos are real in many cases, however, and have been stolen from their previous victims or bought from ordinary people in Russia. They won't be traceable in a photo ident.
So, if you live in the US, continue to block users from outside that country, but also be careful of those purporting to come from there as well. It is there that they are most active at the moment.

RE: Guys, what's your favorite cologne to wear?

My favorite is Brut. The brand has been around for a long time, but is still available.

RE: Fakes

Do a reverse image check on them. There is probably a whole little army of clones out there...rolling on the floor laughing

RE: should motorcyclists be required to wear a helmet?

Yes you should wear a helmet on a motorcycle. It could save your life. Not only that it may cause less distress to your relatives when they have to identify your remains if you have a fatal accident.

RE: If you were able to

I am a British Citizen I currently live in Sweden where I have resident and work permits for life and also Californian ID, a green card and A US social security number. That gives me the options of living in three countries.
I currently live in Sweden as it is a beautiful country, universal health care and education are free, the standard of living is high and the Swedes are very nice people. I also have a son here.
England to me is like a foreign country now which has become overcrowded.and I don't think I would ever return there.
The US is fine with some very nice people there, but there are are some problems with health care as most things work on a commercial basis.

I would say that The US is good place for young, healthy and dynamic people.
England used to be a nice place, but now there are terrible housing problems for the indigenous population and it is a much more violent place than it used to be. Even young people would find things difficult there.
Sweden and Scandinavia are the best places to live in and then travel abroad, being able to come home again.

RE: Relationship

I think I would feel embarrassed being seen with a young girl, besides they have their whole lives to live ahead of them and should look for somebody their own age to share it with.
Remember when we were teenagers ourselves and viewed older people of 40 or so as incredibly old and those over 50 as older than God? Over 60 and it should be made illegal! That is why I find older men sniffing around young girls as rather distasteful. I think they do it because they are probably going through some kind of age crisis.
Ever seen a balding old man with a beer belly who has just been scammed? You look at the picture of the young scammer and think "What made him believe that a young good looking girl would ever be interested in him?" There you have it.
Most people, meh and women, have a natural physical attraction for a partner of their own age.

RE: Relationship

Nice onerolling on the floor laughing

RE: This one thread - You can PM a participant and ask ONE question you normally wouldn't DARE ask.

It's seven at night here and ten in the morning there. I'm not sure which one of us is in front or behind.
Why do you ask? Were you thinking of tucking me in D.
Tell you what, if you are in front then mail me the name of the winner in the two o'clock and I'll put a bet on it here. We'll make a fortune together.

RE: This one thread - You can PM a participant and ask ONE question you normally wouldn't DARE ask.

If I want to ask a woman who I meet on here anything at all which I am curious about I do so. There is nothing wrong with that and it is quite normal....Not being clairvoyant I would find it hard to find out otherwise....

RE: This one thread - You can PM a participant and ask ONE question you normally wouldn't DARE ask.

rolling on the floor laughing Nice one!

RE: Men and women....they probably get much more attention here and elsewhere than we do...

I don't blame you.....

RE: What TV show would you like to see return?

I would like to see "Bewitched" return.yay

RE: at what point did Russia become the undisputed superpower

It got there and is showing on my "You Liked" thingy. It goes to show how people get around the blocked countries on here. When you delete it then is should disappear.professor

RE: at what point did Russia become the undisputed superpower

Aha! You are wrong there. You cannot delete me as I am outside your contact area. Hold on...but then I couldn't write could Iconfused I'll send you a like and see if it shows up that you have deleted it. It should disappear from my "You Liked" thingy.

RE: The Garden

rolling on the floor laughing

RE: Does anyone actually read profiles

The profiles are fun to read, but they get a bit repetitive sometimes as a lot of them say the same things and try to come over as the perfect person. It gets a bit sickly.
The humorous ones are the best I find though as they are more original. You can make some very good friends with those people.

RE: Scammers ? Who else has had them here?

There are some. I've met a lot of them. From what I can make out though, there are a good many scammers. There is a ring currently operating in North America which is active at the moment. This is a long term one and they have a very good local knowledge of where they say they come from.
They are very clever as they will give away NOTHING that will give you the means to identify who they are. No surname which you could check out quickly in White Pages, no exact location just a general one, pictures that have been purchased and not stolen so no facial ident there and hidden IP numbers if they mail you.
Their English is good, but has no North American register when they write.

RE: at what point did Russia become the undisputed superpower

Yes they get around the filters like that to try and get your attention. There was a persistent one from South Africa. They can't contact you so they send a "Like". It is most irritating.

RE: at what point did Russia become the undisputed superpower

Do you ever get the ones who say "I read your beautiful profile" Which is an obvious lie if you have ever read minelaugh and then you check and yiu see that they have never viewed you? I get lots of thoserolling on the floor laughing

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