Don't just limit love to the convience of a 10 min drive...
Come on forums , and let people get to know the real you. if you just sit in emails and have no background it will be mostlikely fruitless.
i did the search and email thing a year ago and never had any luck... which was a good thing, just bobbing for apples with your eyes closed there is a chance that you will slip and drown (metaphoricly speaking)
I came here and decided i just wanted friends and nothing more... i never searched i came into forums and started relaxing and having fun meeting all the wonderful people here...
And from out of me having a good time and being myself... we came together. and we have sen good and bad...but we are still together and deeply in love. could not ask for a better life partner.
And get this... she live 1047.8 miles door to door from me. Just be open and be honest if it is real it will not ever change. and who knows you may find the ONE lives right down the street in your neighborhood.
i think what needs to happen is the pompus overpayed people who work in these establishments (the upper management) should be more active investigating the needs of those who come for help.
I mean we pay so many people to do socialwork,welfare,postal employees,health department workers...
if a network was setup where every service offered to each individual was tracked and audited regularly... and also have places for comments from teachers and other civil service employees. the fraud would be dramaticly decreased.
I do not like to think of someone coming in and invading my privacy... But then i really have nothing to hide.
But if to recieve services it was known that your life would be viewed carefully... the ones who scam would not be so quick to hold thier hand.
Just like selling an 0.89 cent part to the goverment and charging 750,000.00 Shipping fees to get around the system. And yes it happens all the time... here in America.
Well i know from experience...here In North Carolina i came back here as a single father. No home no job very little money(200.00 dollars in my pocket) 2 children and 1 car. lost everything in Florida due to uncontrloable things i could not change.
Day care Vouchers... I was on a waiting list and was told maybe even up to 2 years before i could get the help.
Food Stamps... was given 52.00 a month for 3 months... because i lived at my mothers,and my past income was way over thier standard.
i did however recieve state medical... Medicare for the girls
No welfare, no AFDC.no education grants or help.
No child support. Exwife never worked in the marriage and even based on minimum wage she refused to pay any assistance to me or her children.Even when she had a Job ,she gave no help...
I went and got a job... (fortunate my parents where there for the children)
I paid my own way through school on a payment plan.
and kept my employeement until i recieved my certification.
So in some ways i have to agree... i see many people who are able bodied and able minded... they just lack any ambition,and like the easy road.
No it isn't luxury of life... but i know many who subsidise thier income "under the table" and are doing much better than those who recieve nothing in the way of assistance.
I lost my childrens medicare as soon as i started working fulltime and was no longer considered a fulltime student.2 1/2 years ago
so i really have no sympathy for those who suck up money from others who need it.or those who would use a system that has very little to give and take what is left... leaving honest hard working people to support thier lazy lifestyle.
There are plenty of Men Women and children in this country who cannot get the help they need because of these thieves and swindlers.
I think if they are caught frauding they would be forced to either work in public services or hide and work wherever they could find it... either way they will have to support themselves for the damages they caused Good honest people.
If you want something to play with Go and find yourself a toy Baby my time is too expensive And I'm not a little boy
If you are serious Don't play with my heart It makes me furious But if you want me to love you Then a baby I will, girl you know that I will
Tell it like it is Don't be ashamed to let your conscience be your guide But I know deep down inside me I believe you love me, forget your foolish pride
Life is too short to have sorrow You may be here today and gone tomorrow You might as well get what you want So go on and live, baby go on and live
Tell it like it is I'm nothing to play with Go and find yourself a toy But I... Tell it like it is My time is too expensive and I'm not your little boy
Always liked this one... it is so true to my feelings of love and how important it is to not hide.
Someone just hung up a phone
No it is tuesdays always tuesdaysseems to me Joanne seems to tell you alot...
everytime i come in she has told you something else