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It is sad to say i'am one of 6 single dads in my subdivision.
and there are about 10 or 15 single moms here also.
love and marriage has come to being a disposable item, which is offered as easily as loaning a pen to someone.
i would wait until my dying day to marry the one who could love me as much as i love holding nothing back.
and if i can't find it then i will die alone. as far as a partner goes. But i have been blessed with two wonderful little demons that i love and adore.
So i guess sometimes we focus more on our wants more than our needs and end up with false connections.
so Im happy to say I'am not married and proud to be the single Dad that I'am.
and for those who are married... Good luck to them, they are going to need it.
Thank You Honey for being so understanding in all this.
Things happen for a reason, I believe my reason was to be shown i can love again and i can see me and the girls opening up our doors to someone who would want the love afo family.
My life has been many things, and through it all i have found... i stay strong in my faith and in my feelings. and it has always done me well. I may not have always made the right choices or performed with excellence... but i have always benn myself. I hope that any who where rattled or disgruntled by the past few weeks will be able to look back and see that as the truth.
You as well as many others on here have seen me in many different views... In the end all i can say is that i wish them to know me as the honest loving person I know I'am.
again i may not always say it right or acceptable to others eyes, But it is from me without any hidden thoughts.
i wish ALL on CS the ones who i know and the ones who do not a heppy New year with dreams it will always be brighter each day
it is difficult when one finds there "idea"of a soulmate just to find it was only there idea not a shared moment.
i do not know if i believe in the concept of finding a soulmate anymore.... when my soul returns i shall sit him down and question him on his running off...
i think it maybe more of an illusion than a reality to just find them.
I think it would be a case where the two would find each other and nothing else in this world would really matter.
but in todays society where so many worry about what everyone else is doing and not focusing on what they need to do... soulmates are becoming more and more rare.
I went to a party with Curlywolf and met so many people in my area...
its funny ... she came all the way down from Canada and knew as many people in my hometown as i did
it was a great evening and i met some very talented musician... what happens in the mountains stays in the mountains
My resolution was to put past pains behind me, to move forward for me and my Girls, take up some extra counselling so that i may see what it is in my life i can do to better myself .
i need to put the past heartaches behind me and look to brighter days... Someone who really would love me is out there, and i want to be ready when she comes.
So i shall be working on getting me the Good place so that i can enjoy some real Good love. no more fake love for me real or nothing...
i give someone i was serious with my information ;and would even give them my family members personal numbers if i thought it would help them feel safe...
And i have come to find Any Woman who would not be willing to share her information with me to help me feel more secure... has something to hide.
But maybe thats just me because im such an open person i never try to hide Anything and would expect the same in return.
let's face it so many Players out there in the Digital world...
i would not just give it all to someone i met today... but after three conversations or so i would think i could not get serious unless i was willing to do at the request.
that is why the 419s are so successful... people are afriad to ask and expect.
But scams come in all kinds of forms... i have been involvled in many different forms so i know this to be true.
yes they are... especially the ones who tell the same stories to gain the hearts of another and another and another.
i have seen it, and have talked to others who where told the same sacred things that were shared with me...
And the Pathilogical ones will always try to act as if they are so innocent and the world is attacking them.
but in reality it is only just the few that have the same feelings, hurts, and broken dreams the liar offered.
to me this is the worst kind... to lie and find a fool to believe the same story you told the fool before them. They know what the outcome is because they have faced it so many times before...
Im sorry Riya... but if you read the original post i had no intentions of making it personal. I stated i had ask before (which i had ) post called if you could ask for 3 things....
Im sorry but it was not personal only in the form i had a personal question to ask opinion on...
The thread became personal due to others bringing in personal posts up to that point which was very short the question was being answered as general as it was written...
i Asked because i cared and wanted opinion on my thought of who would accept that type of scenario...
If you read into it i placed it to be personal and or attacking someone... Then im sorry it was not the intent at all... you can thank Other members for turning into a personal issue...
i have learned many things over the past 24 hours... and i will not bring that to posts... If i were out to attack someones character it would have been easier to be quite direct...
The whole basis was to get feedback about my feelings on being able to accept such a scenario...
And Riya I too am very unhappy about the way it turned out... But Se la Vie.... it happens no matter what we do at times.
i was hoping by the posting of this thread i could use it as to saying to a particular person... SEE its not just me being a jerk... others feel like if it were placed before them they couldn't either.
But as you go through the threads you will find it took a turn for the worse due to one initial post that changed the whole direction... Si im sorry anyone is unhappy with me... but i posted a question not pointing a finger and was placed before the public as trying to do something someone else thought.
In all honesty I wish i had Not taken the loss that became from this thread... i was in love and did not want to lose the one i adored... but it became very evident very quickly that was what happened... So you are unhappy? just think about how much i lost when i did not want too.
i have said it several times in the thread i was not pointing fingers but in being accused of it the finger got pointed and i think it a shame . I have suffered a loss and i will have to live with that.... So now all that is left or all that can come from it is opinions about my failed attempts to see where i stand and to see if i was just being to proud...
I stand alone with my principals... because i will not give in to something that has no meanining for the heart.
i thought i would would travel any distance to be near the one i would love... But these days seeing there is nothing better at a distance than in my back yard i think i would stay at home.
have not found distance to make a better mate... just a better heartache and headache.
so why add Jet lag to a broken dream...
Forget it... if it is meant to be it will happen... and if not you shall be in your favorite chair at the end of the day... So no loss either way.
RE: just me
Hello and welcome to CS...Go to the [ Edit Photos] tab at the top of this page... there you can choose to upload photes.
I believe the limit is eight but you can do captions ,ratings and sorts of stuff from the Edit Photo page.