Zarah Forum Posts (1,388)

RE: Did it ever happen to you that you believed dating someone who doesn"t exist anymore ?

He told me over the phone he was 5'11...inches???

RE: Did it ever happen to you that you believed dating someone who doesn"t exist anymore ?

Not the age but height...I met him in a bar and even though he was perched on a stool I could tell straight away he was shorter than my 5'8...He jumped down to shake hands and I swear he resembled an escapee garden gnome..I was shocked but he appeared not to notice I was looking down on his bald patch all night...I could even tell you the number of dandruff flakes..I swear never again!!!!

RE: Our deepest fear.....

My son is so clever..yet he is also extremely shy so he holds himself back academically throwing himself just far enough in the shadows..but not too far to be distinctive negatively...
Yes some people I know are so very talented creatively but wish not for any credibility..staying in ones comfort zone is certainly easier.

RE: Contention in the work place

Well the medical profession is frustrating to say the least...there is so much pressure to make sure mistakes never happen and in meeting such a huge hour week I find exhaustion to be never far behind me...I actually enjoyed working in sudan more than the western world...I found I was appreciated more and the expectations less...
Most of the other medical staff where I work are men so the dynamics of our working team seems to function postively...
The biggest dilemma I have is staying postive myself above the never ending negativity of illness...

RE: Our deepest fear.....

Sometimes people are as scared of success as they are of failure..

RE: Do you enjoy a good arguement?

Arguing is negative but what I dislike more is the silent treatment...Men often say women are guilty of it but I have known men that sulk and in bed just turn their back...Those are the moments I wish for an argument...

flowers

Lucky girl...my mailbox will probably get a bunch of teddys now from Indian marriage seekers...shucks...

flowers

thanks...a guys reply and a gentleman...I have wondered whether men just send the same flower randomly or actually choose which one for which girl....thanks Kansas..thats the information I was seeking without realising

flowers

I have never got the teddy!!!

I was looking over my flowers and most are either the sunflower or rose...

flowers

Nowadays its good to get any darn flower...

flowers

Morning sunshine...
Seems a weird question but I am always interested in the type of flowers a guy will bring...The roses are always a safe bet but it is nice when they are creative...guess most get the florist to decide anyway...

I wonder why people choose the flowers they do on line...I do purely by colour..

flowers

A strange question possibly....does the type of flower you are sent influence your reply in any way...i.e. if a man/woman sends you one of your favourite description or colour...I know I personally notice the yellow sunflowers more so it had me wondering?

RE: Do you enjoy a good arguement?

Speaking of arguing...I get really upset at dog fights..the neighbours just got into the biggest barney and it makes me feel really sick..

RE: looking for tennessee times again

Sounds good to me Jimmy

RE: looking in from the window

Oh yes sorry...it is perfect for argument thread too..
Yes Bastian and I are enjoying some time in Montego before travelling on to Ireland...same to you hun...hope all is as you wish it to be and more..

RE: My apologies

I agree....I think I would have dated an entire village by now...I don't understand how any adult would expect to recieve a reply to an email that simply says...seeking marriage...awaiting your reply...
I have nothing against any man from these countries but pleaseee be serious!...p.s....the cheque to Nigeria is on its way...

RE: Do you enjoy a good arguement?

Discussions without arguments are so much more difficult in relationships...there is so much emotional attachment involved and not taking things personally is difficult...when in love it can appear as rejection.

RE: looking in from the window

Hiya Ging..hope you are well...
Think you're at the wrong house...

RE: SUGGEST A GIFT FOR THE PERSON ABOVE U

a weekend at the beach

RE: howlong will U do like?

If you don't know your own member yet sweety I guess you better start peeing sitting down..

RE: Do you enjoy a good arguement?

No you are totally wrong

RE: WHO'S THE WORLDS FUNNIEST BLACK MAN WILL SMITH BILL COSBY CHRIS ROCK EDDIE MURPHY OR RICHARD PRYOR ?

I like Bill Cosby...his humour is good clean funny...

RE: Do you enjoy a good arguement?

Some people believe they are right no matter what information is put before them...they are the ones that never learn anything..people oppose things they are ignorant to...
Blinkers...
I once met a man when I started working in a foreign third world country who had been there for twelve years..every day he whined about the people, the language barrier, culture etc etc...
I was there for four months and knew more in the ways of the people and helped them through taking my blinkers off...he drew a blank with them...wonder why?

RE: cs is a sweety box ? r u my sweety?

Waiter! get me what he's havin'.

RE: Do you enjoy a good arguement?

Yes definitely..if you disagree regarding someones opinion on a certain subject some people take it as a personal insult.
A little bit like the yes it is..no its not that I used to flog my brother over..

RE: Do you enjoy a good arguement?

..definite difference between debating and arguing...
I hate arguments in relationships the most...harmony is a much preferred environment..

RE: should you judge people by what they look like

I'm hearing you girl...we learn more..the world is the biggest classroom.
I myself am an eclectic blend of it..I even follow sufism and most people are shocked to learn it...we all seem to cast a stereotypical image and it is not surprising when people are left in bewilderment if they follow their own judgements by image alone.

RE: should you judge people by what they look like

True...
But people often do it..not just looks as what is percieved as attractive but also colour, religion etc...
A man dressed in his religious muslim attire will form a picture in a lot of peoples minds...
A black youth dressed in doof doof attire in Harlem will conquer up an image..
We are all sometimes victims of what the world has lead us to believe..

RE: has a movie scene inspired you to act

Thats my own little back yard taken about 16 years ago...yes I will certainly miss the beach when I leave here soon

Australia has such diversity in geographical beauty...
Funnel webs...yes a problem and so are the brown snakes...I find lots of Irish and English friends here are horrified at all the little creatures lurking around...one uses an entire can of spray on any bug that dares to cross his path..

RE: has a movie scene inspired you to act

I have had ichy feet of late .....again...I usually divide my time between the colours of the city and being swept up in the sea of people...and the rich tapestries of nature...the colours of Africa and Sumatra are amazingly beautiful...
Well I recently watched 'In the Wild'....
I am now thirsty to absorb some wilderness again...
I will be in Ireland very soon but will spend a few weeks driving around the coastline to explore before embracing the reality of work..

P.s....Aussie by default here..