Be very careful if you make a woman cry, because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib. Not from his feet to be walked on. Not from his head to be superior, But from the side to be equal. Under the arm to be protected, and next to the heart to be loved......
Like snowflakes, the human pattern is never cast twice. We are uncommonly and marvelously intricate in thought and action. There is no respect for others without humility in one's self and I have found if you have some respect for people as they are, you can be more effective in helping them to become better than they are.
I think you are a gem and good luck...definitely shorten your ideal match and just be a little bit more general...the clearly defined must have bits you can get to when you start conversing with someone....I think a little bit of mystery is intriguing and you certainly know in the beginning if you get along with someone so just have fun....
No-one should initially reveal their pain from a past relationship....In fact if it still exists then its better to remain single and spend time healing rather than looking for solutions in another person... Friendship is something that builds over time and I believe the strong foundation that love can blossom from...openness and honesty are important but it is wiser to take the time in getting to know someone your initially attracted to...
I make my choices clumisly, recklessly, passionately and with all heart... interesting outcomes but following ones life with heart instead of head can be rewarding if you can live with the pitfalls.....
Yes I think most of us consider not having a textbook childhood...Our parents can only do the best job they know how and sometimes their mistakes are just learnt behaviour like our own...We spend our entire lives becoming better people and shaping who we want to be.. No I don't think it ever hurts us in the end, we only become polished by being rubbed....Self analysis and reflecting can be a powerful tool. I use a lot of positive affirmations in my life and often look back on the past and draw from it to shape the future... Bless you Gilly..xx
It is a strange fact that freedom and equality, the two basic ideas of democracy, are to some extent contradictory. Logically considered, freedom and equality are mutually exclusive, just as society and the individual are mutually exclusive.
Well its quite obvious there is more than one man with more than one preference so everyone gets a turn....just like us gals...gosh imagine if we all liked the same type of fella...boring.....and imagine the cat fights??
Simply from the heart rather than googled or transcripted from whatever..... God is the natural inner instinct in all of us that is pure love of goodness...listen to your heart...be silent ...think...reflect and listen Religion is what man tells us it should be...
I love being......ALL WOMAN.....assembled in Scandinavia...shaped in Australia The being who, for most men, is the source of the most lively, and even, be it said, to the shame of philosophical delights, the most lasting joys; the being towards or for whom all their efforts tend for whom and by whom fortunes are made and lost; for whom, but especially by whom, artists and poets compose their most delicate jewels; from whom flow the most enervating pleasures and the most enriching sufferings -- woman, in a word, is not, for the artist in general... only the female of the human species. She is rather a divinity, a star......
I have spent my life travelling consistently since 14 years old... 25 years later I realise I am still single..umm yes a few dates along the way but nothing long term because of my lifestyle.. Now I am content to settle a little...eensy weensy bit... No-one will have me...lol!!!!!! Its my mothers fault...she was in the circus as a trapeze artist so I had no hope of a 'normal' partnered life!!!
Unfortunately some guys are serial players and sounds like you met one... The whole thrill to them is the build up to their conquest...boosts their own egos then they move on once they get what they wanted, they no longer find you a challenge... If its any consellation the guy is a total loser and will end up sad alone, hopefully one day a girl will rip his heart out and stamp on it and leave him feeling the way he has probably made lots of women feel... Betrayal hurts hon but don't even give the jerk the satisfaction of your tears...
Happy Valentines Gilly....good luck with your film and the only thing that hurts worse than the dentist is the bill.... My mailbox was empty...sob sob but I made the most delightful wicked chocolate cake...and no-one to share it with...what a shame, can't let it go to waste now...
Hon you are gorgeous anyway...there are some men that like bigger women and some that don't... Same as women, some of us are attracted to a certain physique although in the end its about chemistry and whether we click but we do have the right to choose.... Hey don't take it personally, I am not offended when a guy tells me I am too thin...more fish in the sea..
what is part muslim?? I recently spent three years living in the middle east and never came across a 'part' muslim... Does that mean only one arm prayers to Allah and the other God?? Gee education about religions is something lacking..
Ha...no he actually has a beautiful soul french canadian gal companion and he is a sensitive, deep thinking wise young man but hides it well.. But life is like a clear mirror, the body is dust on it... Beauty in us is not percieved, for we are under the dust..
I am more concerned with what I want from myself... I think if we concentrate more on becoming the best person that we can be...then we attract similar partners.
Zarah Forum Posts (1,388)
The value of a Woman
Bravo to a decent man...hope your life is improving somewhat and your kids are happy.